posted on Mar, 6 2011 @ 05:20 PM
Hey mate I really hope you read this. I am not a relationship guru, but ATS possibly saved my relationship last night.
The problem you see isn't the problem itself, it is your attitude towards changing it. You need to remember that negativity when nurtured becomes a
beast and another person in your relationship. It is a darkness, a disease, a black cloud that rains its negativity into every situation. It is very
One thing to remember is that positivity will ALWAYS triumph against negativity. The only way to face a negative situation is to turn it into a
positive. It might feel lame and against the grain but it seriously is the solution. Its science. Do some research on black holes and the
positive/negative fight that goes on and you will know what I am talking about
To explain ats saving my relationship : My bf and I love each other dearly, but we are constantly fighting to keep our heads above water. Lately we
did more fighting with eachother then against the world. The hate and negativity last night was so strong, it felt like we were almost finished
murdering our love. I walked out of the bedroom and jumped on ATS.There was a thread that popped up about love. I thought it was odd and clicked on
it. Now at the time of clicking on the thread I was drowning in a sea of hate and misery. 5 minutes later I was giggling. My bf heard my giggling and
came out, I gave him a headphone and then we were both giggling. Then we realised if we had any chance of saving our relationship then we had to fight
fire with fire.
We have to be positive and recognise negativity whenever it appears.
There is no need to live in a world of fear when a world of love is the key to true freedom. I guess this is why God made it his highest