reply to post by piercebitchone
sad part of it all was that none of the therapist or doctors had a real reason as to why the charade took place ,
my take on it all was that my partner was an easy target since i didnt condone any of it and rearly partispated in any of the sessions ,
but when i was present i noticed some of the dumbes things,
the level of conversation was always like they where talking to a toddler
when practicing abc´s and 123 it was all it was , abcdefgh and the math was 1+ x = 2
it just seamed wierd since my child knew the difference between 1 and 87 and a 120 in kinder garden
heck he does the weighing of fruits and veggies in the store all i have to do is ask what we eat today and he does the picking ,
as for reading and understanding languages , at the moment he knows the difference between danish norwegian and swedish just by looking at the text ,
english goes so and so but that doesent stop him from playing rpg´s
on many ocations in school i asked the teacher what they did and they said they where teaching
asking my son what he did he answered we where watching shrek
it seamed that they wanted to keep the level of learning to a minimum as if they where mentaly disabled
to me it was as if they had taken a photo of every kid in kindergarden placed them on a dart board and just tossed a dart and picked a child that way
they wanted to screw up,
in the end we told them that my partner was a school aid for "special children from troubled backgrounds " and that my mother had been in the
psyciatric / social field for more then 30 years and me being who i am just a nosy fellow with too much time on my hands , so we would have noticed if
something was wrong ,
they complained that what we where about to do (removing him from therapy) could damage him ,
last letter we got from them a couple of months a go stated they saw no reason in speech / learning therapy that the results from the school spoke for
them selfs,
as a parent i saw the wall between them and us getting bigger , yet they didnt see what i saw in him ,
i´ll end with something my mother always used to say ,
when reading psycology / sociology dont believe everything you see , cause you might end up believeing that you your self might be affected by some
thing you are not ,