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Originally posted by NoRegretsEver
I wanted to stop by and say that though I would not like to go into detail about this particular subject personally, this is very rampant these days. Some people find it easier to stay with a person even if there is no more romance, just to avoid getting into another relationship. Its hard to have to "try" again these days IMHO.
S&F.
Peace, NRE.
Originally posted by donkeystyle
reply to post by sugarcookie1
im in that situation now and i think she knows it. but its financiallyh hard times right now and i think we both silently dont want to the burden of giong it alone at the moment. especially with the costs of moving and everything.
that doesnt stop me from making plans though. i have been working on increasing my income and once its established , its on to the next one.
Originally posted by NoRegretsEver
reply to post by kdog1982
It could also lead to a post where those that are unhappy can vent. Of course there will be the "its their fault" from time to time, but people that love each other do that .
Peace, NRE.
Originally posted by kdog1982
I must say you have hit it on the nail.
Yes we have,the kids watch cartoons,the wife watches
reality tv,
and I hunker down in the basement with the dogs.
We have split up several times and gotten back together.
Not because of financial means,but because we have a family and care for each other.
But with so much technology invading our lives,it has driven all of us apart it seems.
Originally posted by NoRegretsEver
I think that its says alot that most people have a hard time discussing this in length. Its very touchy, and hard to admit. And even scarier to know that its happening to you. This is something that many live with, but not always voluntarily.
Its hard to think that you might be stuck in something that can be so unsettling, and not fair to either party.
Peace, NRE.