Soulmates are forged over a very long period of time, in that respect, anyone can be your soulmate.

No such thing as a "soulmate"

People who subscribe to such nonsense are going to have problems with relationships. Relationships are complex enough without complicating things with mystical concepts. There are people you'll be more compatible with than others, that's all. There are no souls. Just mates.

Originally posted by NuclearMitochondria
it feels pretty good thus far.
it just really does feel like

I'm glad you feel like you're having a good time. You now have the task of proving that there are "souls" that can "mate", which apparently you've based upon the feelings you get from interacting with your sexual partners.

Soulmates do exist.

The sexes are entirely different though on every level.

Soulmates are the unification of opposites.

I never really put much stock in the soul mate thing until I had some dreams.

1st dream - I was in the passenger seat of a car, foggy all around - all I saw in the dream was me, the car, the road, and the driver. It felt like we were on a bridge, like the Golden Gate, but so foggy you couldn't see 50 ft in any direction. I remember feeling incredibly sad. I was actually sobbing. I had my head rested on the console between the seats and I looked up and saw a pretty blond driving the car. I had this overwhelming feeling that I knew her forever and that she wanted to console me, but she was restraining herself. As if she were forbidden to interact with me.

2nd dream - It was past dusk, but not completely dark. I walk into a house where all the lights are off and there's only a faint ambiance from the setting sun coming through the window. There was a girl there. I "knew" her. I went to give her a hug but she again just stood there as if she wasn't allowed to interact with me.

3rd dream - I was waiting in line to buy a ticket to get into a zoo or theme park of sorts. A girl comes over and starts small-talking with me smiling, very casual. Something clicked and I knew this was the same girl from before. As soon as I had that "IT'S YOU" thought and got excited, the smile faded from her face and she just bolted away.

Each time she looked a little different, but the "vibe" I got from her was always the same.

Logic and reason tell me these are probably just broken subconscious pieces of my personality that I need to work on.

The metaphysical side of me considers this: I have never felt more love for ANYTHING in my life than I did for the girl in those dreams, and I'm very happily married with 2 kids. It does make me wonder if there's "someone" on the other side that I'm just waiting to meet back up with. Maybe she didn't interact with me so as not to distract me from any relationship I would have in this life.