reply to post by TheIrvy
disagree. if everyone (who is able to) would take care of their own needs before others', i believe the world would be a much happier place.
the "virtues" of self-sacrifice, taken to the extreme, result only in the destruction of the self. living in mormon-land, i know quite a few
"selfless" individuals who are nothing but shells of people.
therefore, selflessness is also a sin unless it is placed under the proper context. the context being knowledge and intent. in the same way, i
consider sefishness to be one of the highest of all virtues.
this whole "service to others" and "service to self" business is reductionist hogwash.