Some of you guys and even the gals make some incredibly stupid posts. It must be a public school education..meaing a television/movie education.
Agree with Macman. Take a woman shooting. If for no other reason to see how committed she can be when it is something she doesnt particularly like to
do. The double standard is that often a man or male must do things for women that he is not particularly fond of doing or even want to do..but this is
normal and acceptable for a male to do this the other way around for a woman..even as a male career opportunity.
As to women with guns or firearms....what on earth are some of you thinking?? As I keep saying ..public education standards or non standards at work.
Incredibly dumbed down ..even the females.
It is OK to trust a woman with your paycheck...right!!!??? But not a firearm?? Did some of you get a case of stupid?? Even trusting a woman to spend
your paycheck by her deciding what she wants for dinner at a restaurant??? With you paying?? This too tells you alot about a woman and whether she is
only interested in the settings on her radio dial..in lieu of your thinking and RISKS taken in earning your monies.
I've taken a number of women shooting. Most of them don't take to it and only do it to accommodate me but don't intend to take it up very often or
with consideration with me in mind. But it is OK if I commit to what they want or think.
This is called "High Maintenance " for those of you not educated sufficient to define it.
The idea here is that you spend alot of time trying out for female approval and take on alot of the settings on her radio dial ..and give up your
settings. But equality is happening out here right???
You are here, by asking her to go shooting, raising her Maintenance Costs and looking to see how she handles it. If she can pass muster.
The phony double standard is that it is ok to raise maintenance costs to you as a male...and not her's.
Males are to constantly try out for approval...even at the cost of their lives and paychecks..but don't try it the other way around. This is not
socially acceptable towards females/women and the responses all across the relationship section bear this out ..this double standard.
We as males often work in dangerous and even deadly environments for our monies. And we are going to trust a woman with our paycheck and not a
firearm. I suggest some of you males get your heads out of your backsides and get a breath of fresh air..do some thinking..not fear. Otherwise you are
as fearful and insecure as many women out here...ie...feminine...ie..high maintenance.
I am not saying that you should not be selective about the caliber of woman in whom you trust a firearm or your paycheck. I am not saying this at all.
I am saying that once you learn the caliber of a woman and she passes muster...ok..but be choosy about the caliber of the woman. You want a
disciplined, thoughtful, considerate woman with both your paycheck and a firearm..not a drama queen.
Good post Macman. Also good on the basic outline of Mikemp44. The five do's and don'ts.
By the way Macman..I don't find it difficult to get women to come over to this house and take off their clothes. I even know women for whom this is
their major skill set in life. This does not impress me. So taking a woman to the range for such ulterior motives is to me nonsense. But that is me.
It will however show me if she is a commitment phobe or not. Women too can be very commitment phobic. Just watch them when you remove them from their
safety net type environment. This is what you want to know about a woman you intend to trust with your paycheck or firearm, who is going to be a
keeper. If not ..forget it. But it is always a good thing to know or sense about a woman's caliber.
I found the suggestion about fishing good as well...Fishing or shooting both.
You are not as a man trying out for first place with a woman in order to constantly take second place in the long run by taking up with said
woman...and giving up your belief system and values for hers.
To many males I know work hard for first place and wind up with second or third place after taking up with a woman..yet take first place risks. Really
IF you cannot trust a woman with a firearm..you cannot trust her with your paycheck...got it now..Pull your heads out of your backsides.
If she is not willing to take RISKS or certain discomfiture's for you ..she will not take care of your paycheck. Got it now.?? It is not difficult
once you get out of a television/movie education belief systems of how thing are supposed to be out here.
edit on 23-2-2011 by orangetom1999 because: (no reason given)