it is my opinion, that a woman who manipulates her natural ability to nurture, to deceive the hearts of men, is no different from a man useing his
physical ability to dominate a woman.
i also believe one deserves the other. people who toy with others feelings and emotions, deserve to be physically pushed around. Likewise, people who
push others around physically deserve to be mentally raped.
i think its better to just not exploit whatever ability you have.
i do however believe that women posses a unique ability that allows them to deceive even themselves. all too often i observe girls "playing dumb" when
it is convenient for the situation, when its obvious they are fully aware of what they are doing/is going on. this is a very dangerous practice as it
more often than not leads to serious character flaws, and problems.
when somebody gets everything they want, they tend to never grow up. in my humble opinion we now have a world full of sexually promiscuous 12 year
olds (mentally) with ADD. people let their attention zero in on the first piece of @ss that walks by, even when they already have a mate. it all
starts with somebody lying to themselves, be it the married guy with wandering eyes, or the girl that has a boyfriend but still insists on advertising
her @ss everytime she leaves the house. When caught both parties deny that they are or ever were doing it and then get defensive etc... both parties
know what they are doing, but what i dont understand is why even be in a relationship if thats how you behave? furthermore why lie to yourself and
pretend that you werent, thats what perpetuates it all.
theres no more pride or virtue (or love for that matter). Just deceit, and what your able to get away/not get away with.
commitment is gone too, most people these days will jump at the first "better choice" that walks by. Oh sure they may pretend like that isnt the case,
and that the first relationship just so happened to suddenly start having problems. but they are just lying to themselves, and like i said, this is
what keeps it all perpetuated..as it is very doubtful that person will be the last..
its gotten to the point where its easier to change what is considered "normal" around you, than to just change yourself. somehow, its seems ok when
everybody else is doing it too.. it must be the "new normal". if you can get a group of people to nod their heads at whatever your about to say
(regardless if its true) your going to have enough confidence to believe it, even if you know it to be untrue. hell, its happening in this very
ill probably even be subconsciously attacked by the very people im talking about for posting this
if i say that i speak out of experience, it will be assumed that all of my opinions have been formed around one bad girl/bad relationship.
however if i say the opposite, then it sounds like mere speculation and that what im saying doesn't actually happen in the real world.
ill just leave it unsaid, so that i at least get the satisfaction of watching the "experts" attempt to educate me about myself.
11-2-2011 by RelentlessLurker because: (no reason given)