I dont know where to put this thread so i am sorry if its in the wrong place. Ok i need to lay out some details but i dont want to make it toooooo
long.. This happened today, so here goes.
My ex and i broke up in Feb 2010 but we still had relations up until DEC 2010. We would bicker alot and argue through cellphone text. Mainly about
my property she still had and wouldn't return it.
Long story short she filled a order of protection against me in the beginning of JAN. In court (today) she produced typed up forgeries of supposed
texts i sent(fake). Which i never sent. I did agree that we were threatening each other back and forth to the judge. I myself did not have any of the
texts saved because i didnt think it was going to get this bad. (my mistake). The judge found out she had contacted me a week after she filed the
initial order (which wasnt in place at the time) and chastised her for talking to me (i thought i had the upper hand but no!)
The judge initially asked if i objected to the order and i replied "yes this is a joke, a waste of time and further more just a feeble attempt to
strike back at me"
I also stated my bio daughter goes to the same school as her kids and that i attend awards ceremonies at the school which further indicated why i
didnt want his order to be placed against me.
At one point (my ex had actually brought some of my property to court) the judge asked me to go get my property from her.
I replied that " No , i would wish to remain as far away from her as possible"
So the items were placed onto a table in a neutral area for me to pick up. I clearly made my point to this judge just how much i wanted to avoid
contact with this person regardless. I also told the judge that i haven't spoken to her in over a month as well.
If im repeating myself im am sorry..
I made the judge aware the texts were not written by me (forgeries under oath by her) as they were hand typed on a computer and this is not proof of
evidence. (im sorry i would want to see your phone and/or phone records from a service provider)
NOPE NOT HERE
Then i made the judge aware that i havent even contacted her in the last month period and how she was just a vindictive person trying to get back at
me among other things like making me miss work and losing money.(like i did today)
Mind you that i didnt even have to show up to this hearing (if i didnt the order would be placed on me default) but i went to court anyways because i
did not want anything on my record period. I also thought the judge would just agree that this was BS and general bickering between two people and
drop it. NOPE and it gets worse which is why i am writing.
This woman judge (and sorry no offense to women at all) was VERY BIASED and one sided towards women. Would not listen to anything i said with a grain
of salt. AND ......like in a lot of women's judicial cases... SIDED WITH THE POOR DEFENSELESS woman. BOO HOOO!!!!! ( i mean seriously)
Let me educate you on this poor defenseless woman.. She has previously BEAT ME IN THE HEAD with glass BEER MUGS... you know .. the HALF INCH THICK
BAR ONES!!!! (she was arrested for DV and assault for that episode) Fist punched me like the best of any man. This woman is hardly afraid of me...
and i would say honestly i am more afraid of her. And im sorry im a big dude... 6'4" 300 lbs but i dont beat on women period and shes a fierce
person to reckon with
Ok .. anyways.. the judge ordered the protection order against me (a total joke and i am pissed)
So what am i complaining about?
First..... I cant goto my daughters school.. if i do and i see my EX i must leave.
Is that fair.?... BUT HERES MY BIGGEST GRIEVANCE ATS..
The judge then asked me if i had any weapons... i was like "YUP..."
and she was like "what do you have"
And i say " i have a 9mm Baretta"
I was told that i would have turn over my weapon to the local police depatment in which i shrugged/smirked and made a "Psssssshhhh " sound.
Then she asked me to sign paperwork.. I was cool and calm up until the " i cant goto my daughters school" But i got VERY agitated in the court
telling me i had to relinquish my weapons to LOCAL PD??? (i dont think so) FURTHERMORE i am included in some kinda of "Brady" clause which they say i
wont be able to purchase or hold any weapons at all for the duration of this "order" for A YEAR!!!!!!!
Ok so i refused to sign anything and was told to wait outside the courtroom away from "her" where she was also waiting on the opposite side, until
they typed up the order. Well i left.. i was VERY pissed and wanted to maintain some self reserve and not BLOW UP. So i bailed. FYI i wasnt ordered
to this hearing.. i was requested.. and the only thing that would happen if i didnt show up would be that the order would be granted. But i didnt
want to have this against me so i went. They served me later this day.
Whats the big deal? Well i could give a squat in regards to talking to her anymore... my big concerns is the facr i cant goto my daughters awards
anymore... ORDER says... if she is there i must leave... WHAT???
what if i was there first!!
MORE IMPORTANTLY is that the man is trying to take my weapon away from me.
Gun control.. total BS!!!!!
And i will tell you this ATS..... 24 hours ends 2/9/2011 @ 9:30am (tomorrow morning) and i WILL NOT, EVEN FACING ARREST, GIVE UP ANY FIREARMS TO
ANY LOCAL LAWMAN PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Did you hear that? I WILL NOT!!!! EVER!!!!!
and they will have to pry it from my cold dead hands. (just a stern phrase.. that ive come to love.. no threats or anything of that nature.. its the
point that matter... got it?)
This is abuse to myself as a citizen without any solid evidence, without justification at all.... this wicked evil woman of a judge was one sided
and biased period, There is no need for an order... and no need to try and take my right to arms away from me. I have not been found guilty
PERIOD!!!... Sorry the gun stays with me...
I am going to appeal for the right to bear arms aspect... and furthermore how, without a gun, am i suppose to protect myself against the threats from
her in regards to her friends "f'' ing" me up? as she has told me in the past in these texts.
I need some advice, help and some good old American freedoms.
I will keep this updated if anything occurs and if im not in jail... Like i said though.. im not giving up my piece (especially to the cops) for some
BS unsubstantiated reasons. And mind you i live in a VERY lenient gun law state.. specifically Cochise County, Arizona.
UPDATE AS IM WRITING THIS. Sheriffs just came by. Apparently someone texted her (sure...) and she thinks it was me and now they are going to turn
it over to there cyber crimes to do a IP investigation. This is now getting beyond ridiculous. Sorry i cant continue as i am furious
edit on 8-2-2011 by djmolecular because: spell