reply to post by theabsolutetruth
Yes, and I forgot to mention that part, I too have been called all sorts of names that differentiates a non-conforming to evil person, such names as
"Geek, Nerd, and other". They call me Geek because I wont dress the same way as they. They call me a Nerd because I refuse to act and speak the
same way as they do. This is very stupid, these class of people expects every one to act like they do, and any other way of acting is like violating
the law under their eyes.
I haven't yet moved to a suburban or found a group of like minded people around my neighborhood, I still live within the city and living here is not
that great when you have values like mines.
Sometimes I spend times day dreaming of me living in a place all by my self with no people around me miles in radius, with a huge amount of acres with
greens and fruits planted at my service. Or at the very most, the same but with like 100 to 200 people that shares my view living together in a small
neighborhood but then after this, no other people to be found by hundreds of miles in radius to our point of residence. in such as dream, I would be
living in complete peace and harmony, free from danger and harms, zero possibility of a gangster reaching you (as they would rather stay where they
are, in the city -- these people dont like to travel too much and for very long distances, remember they are very lazy people).
And there aren't many places to go, things to do in the UK that avoids these things and the pressure on children to conform is apparent from
If we live in the city Our children's chances of getting conformed to negativity is very high. We have a bunch of influences attaching our children,
and here I will name a few:
*Television. Possible resolution: not purchasing a TV.
*Your nearest family member/relative who has conformed to the system feels its a great ideal to "toughen up" your kid with his/her street like
"values" to start acting like a ghetto from small age. Possible resolution: make sure that your kid don't have any influence/contact with this
person, or at the very least, have a serious conversation with this relative in not contributing to the corruption of your kid and how you expect this
relative to behave when he or she is visiting you.
*The neighborhood group of kids who are so entrenched into whats known as "today's music" and call them selves the "modernized youths, etc" can
pose a serious risk to your kid in getting diverted in the wrong direction that you have been fighting so much till this day. Possible resolution:
Well, this is a tough one, specially if you live in the city and in big apartment complex buildings/projects, and specially if your neighbors are
blasting their rap music so much that it feels like if YOUR are putting that music in your own house, your kid will be able to understand that music
words by words. Not only that, you risk getting your kid labeled with terms like "Geek and Nerd" and presurized to ignore you (the parent) and go
their way, or risk getting hurt or suffering other dire consequences as a direct result of your kid not lowering his standards to act and dress the
same way they do. I think that if you share my views and wish to have a kid, your best bet is to move to a nicer neighborhood, where such influence
you are trying your kid not to see is not existent, this may be very hard to achieve, as this will be a fight between you, and the majority of people,
but there HAS to be a place you can go and I believe its not 100% that is corrupted.
*your kids teacher/pre-teacher feels that is a great idea to start teaching your kid about all kids of "cultures" out there in your kid's teacher
point of view. Therefore, she starts with introduction to rap music and how "beautiful" this culture is as it enables every one from all walks of
life and all ethnic background to integrate and socialize as in one group, so do that teacher thinks! Imagine this, you at home trying to avoid rap
influence as much as possible for your kid, so that your kids TEACHER does the opposite as you are doing. Possible solution: home school your kid,
and if your country does not allow home schooling, then consider moving to another country where it does BEFORE your kid is born, or before having
relations with your partner with the intentions of having a kid.
*Your kid's classmates. Yes, we all have seen this, where your kid's classmates peer-pressures your kid into doing something that is not right
according to our high standards of critical thinking. Possible solution: well, it could be a matter of deciding WHERE your kids goes to school.
Also, you can home school your kid, would be an ideal solution.
*Your local church/religion institutions. Yes, we see this all the time. You are walking down the streets and suddenly you see a wacko shouting with
microphone and a large speaker connected to a 200W receiver at 100% of its volume, why such and such religion is a good idea to follow, and how you
are doing to get damned in eternal hell if you dont follow them. The last thing you want is for a "slave" of such a religion to tell your kid,
specially if your kid is at an age where he/she can understand, why its a good idea to follow their religion. You dont want that kind of influence.
Possible solution: At early age, talk to your kid about what you believe and why. you want your kid to be as knowledgable about the truth as possible
such as you, you may want to warn him/her about deceivers in the world and not to fall for their traps of spiritual enslavement and spiritual
suppression. Teach your kid to meditate, and to get to know his spiritual guide. If your kid happens to have some type of psychic abilities, support
him, and dont discourage him/her from practicing what ever spiritual abilities your kid may have (be it out of body travel/astral projection/ability
to see spirits/spiritual friends, etc).