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Originally posted by slickwilly95991
It would be nice to see everyone get on the same track when it comes to pledging periods, but I have a feeling that whatever time is mandated, the chapters will not adhere to it fully without some national intervention. We can't even get our chapters to stop hazing. At least the new chapters (those installed in the last 10 years or so don't have that problem, it's the 100 year old chapters who don't understand that they could lose one of the longest traditions if they continue it.
I wish there were more alumni involved in the process to try and get rid of this. There is no point for it, but it seems like the actives of some chapters feel entitled to it, regardless if it will mean the end of the chapter.
Originally posted by nikkerbokker
So it amazes me that so many chapters can get in trouble so many times for the SAME THING and barely get any punishment. My chapter had to attend so many programs on hazing, etc and that was a small price to pay in my mind. One thing I have noticed tho, is that the houses getting in trouble for hazing on my campus are usually the strongest orgs nationwide. Coincidence??
Originally posted by conflation
It seems like there may be a sense of entitlement among some of the stronger chapters. Sort of like the idea that lots of people want to be a part of it, so pledges should be willing to put up with whatever the chapter dishes out. In fact, I'm wondering if going through hazing contributes to a sense of being "special." It would be interesting to see whether there is any correlation in frats between hazing and date rape.
Originally posted by wvstreaker
However call me crazy but after talking to others in my chapter (older guys) and guys from different chapters i do kinda feel that i missed out on something since i wasnt hazed. A few of my pledge brothers me inculded dont feel we really earned out letters sometimes but whatever that parts over now i love my GLO.
Originally posted by nikkerbokker
Conflation, you should check into the book "Pledged" we discussed it somewhere on this board but didn't go too much into the fraternity/date rape thing.
Originally posted by conflation
It seems like there may be a sense of entitlement among some of the stronger chapters. Sort of like the idea that lots of people want to be a part of it, so pledges should be willing to put up with whatever the chapter dishes out. In fact, I'm wondering if going through hazing contributes to a sense of being "special." It would be interesting to see whether there is any correlation in frats between hazing and date rape.
Originally posted by 71Vegas
I agree with you. I feel like you should have to earn your letters... it'll mean more to you when you are initiated. And by that, basically I mean you should have learn some history and things about the GLO... and put up with a little crap from guys who've done the same.
I wouldn't consider anything I had to do as hazing. Yelling and stuff is part of it... if you can't handle things like that, you just need to stay in your dorm. It's nothing more than your high school football coach chewin' you out for messin' up. It's just like everything else in life, if you take every criticsm personal, you're gonna be one messed up individual. Grow some thick skin, whatever you gotta do. No one's making people pledge or even do things considered to be hazing. If they don't agree with doing something, just leave. I wouldn't want to be a part of something that forced people to do something I didn't agree with anyhow.
Actually this is not a fraternity, it's a hazing incident. I got hazed. I did the push ups and sit-ups, we ate some horrible food all mixed together, we were hearded into a small room and made to stay up all night, we were placed in a trashcan full of ice water and kept there until we could name all the founders and recited the creed or values. That's not exactly brotherhood and it also places the values to shame when you brothers are hazing you while proclaiming virtuousness. When I got into power, that all ended. Now we are clean and have true brotherhood and it has done wonders. Recruitment shot through the roof, we initiate more, grades went up, national awards came in.
But for example, if it's just brothers and pledges at the house one day and a brother asks you to name your founders and you don't know, well personally I think you're getting off easy if you have to do push-ups or something like that. That's a fraternity ladies and gentlemen. If I had wanted it easy, I would've joined an honor society.
Originally posted by qwerty99
If you are in the real world and it gets though are you going to go crying to moma or lean on your brothers who have been through it with ya. I think hell week seperates the men from the boys.
Originally posted by 71Vegas
"I wouldn't join an organization if it allowed hazing." - Slick
"I got hazed. I did the push ups and sit-ups, we ate some horrible food all mixed together, we were hearded into a small room and made to stay up all night, we were placed in a trashcan full of ice water and kept there until we could name all the founders and recited the creed or values." - Slick
Well, I guess you joined one afterall.