posted on Jan, 24 2011 @ 01:20 PM
Women (in my opinion) always want contrary things.
They want the security of a relationship, but with the danger aspect and thrill of a budding romance.
They want financial security, but then want to spend money on sprees.
They want you to be sensitive and caring, but secretly like a-holes.
They want the envy of their friends, but don't want to be "THAT" girl.
For me at least, this has been my key for understanding women, and why it "seems" like they don't know what they want. They DO...but because they
want contradictory things (something incomprehensible to us guys, I know, but hey, I didn't make the rules)...it SEEMS like they don't know what
The trick for us guys is to perform the balancing act. Being enough of one, and enough of the other, without going too far on either side of the
scale. But, it's even trickier than that. Why? Because the middle is NOT the answer. That'd be WAY too simple. You have to know HOW FAR and WHEN to
go towards one end of the scale vs. the other, and when to go back. So, good luck with that...and keep on balancing....