reply to post by mblahnikluver
Went to public school...got a television and movie education?? Know what the word means Femme Fatale??
Well your not it.
Love is a wonderful thing when it works out ..but few of us deserve the roll of the dice and it always come up sevens.
Love can often be a drug for many of us until we learn to handle it. Not it handle us. This means we become grown ups. Mature.
You bring to mind a woman I knew who was so in love with a fellow...that she would go way out of her reason..just for a "Chance " to be with him. Not
to be with him ..but for the "Chance" to be with him.
I tend to agree with some of the posters..you are fishing..bottom fishing. Willing to roll the dice over and over and continually ante up.
On Leave..sounds like this fellow is in the military. If so and he remains in the military, I wonder if you know what is involved with a fellow being
in the military.
Lots of people carry baggage from other relationships. I've had women use that stuff on me..I tell them that I don't have alot of time to jump through
hoops for their insecurities. I need a secure woman..not insecure. Ante up woman. Fish or cut bait.
Suggest you do the same..get him to ante up..instead of you constantly being the one to ante up. If not ..fold your hand and go where the prospects
are better. You are not responsible for the baggage of others.
You are not here looking for a project to nurse the insecurities of others as a career.
Be very careful about love. Some of us are more in love with the idea of love than the reality of what happens out here. More in love with the idea of
love than the person with whom we are involved. It takes education and discipline to tell the difference and weed out the wildlife...ie..experience.
This is not something that would be taught in public schools or in movies and television.
Fantasy is just that ..fantasy. We often pay a very high price if we choose unwisely. And we cannot easily change channels if we do choose
That you chose to go across the globe to see him..tells me alot about your needing love and willingness to try out for approval/love...and continually
ante up. Does he ante up?? You don't think that some men can sense this??
Ask yourself a question...What is he offering you that you cannot get more or better somewhere or from someone else?? For all that matter ..what are
you offering that he cannot get more or better from someone else.
Does he even want more or better than he has currently.
Think it through. Don't emote...think?? A difficult thing to do when your brains and emotions are clouded by a drug called Love....or even the "Chance
" at love.
Think...don't emote. It is not easy to hit the reset button on these things when you get in to far. So think and choose wisely.
I am not speaking against Love here..but I am saying to be very careful what many of us think is love. We often deceive ourselves on this.
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