Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Originally posted by Condemned0625
I flew across the Atlantic to see him!
I once did the same thing, although in my case I was going to see a girl.
When I got back home she ended things. I wasn't told in person, face to face.
I read your first post, when you were all happy and excited. I saw in that post a lot of the feelings and emotions I had had at the time. Call me cynical but I felt that it might end up not working out for you in the end. I was going to post a comment, but refrained from doing so, as I imagined it would sound harsh and I would get blasted by other ATS members.
The best advice I can give you is to give this guy some space. It will be incredibly difficult, but it's one of the best things to do. Although it's hard to acknowledge, you should be prepared to face the possibility that you will lose touch with him and then no longer speak with him. That's not to say what happened with me will happen with you.
The fact I'm telling you this, is because I can relate, although my circumstances were slightly different. It's something incredibly personal to me and it's not something I generally talk about, in fact only a small handfull of people know about it.
I felt the same way you feel now.
It might not ever truly go away, but it gets easier.