posted on Jan, 5 2011 @ 07:53 PM
reply to post by inchworm
Normally I've been enjoying Inch's tongue-in-cheek approach as it often gives me some well needed laughs.
But sometimes I find myself being serious.. like now...
Big Mistake #1. Trying to IMPRESS.
That's the dishonest approach to take instead of being who you are at all times. And to hell with it if she doesn't like who you are... lots more
fish in that sea.
Big Mistake #2. Spending up BIG on her.
You set the the Expectation level way too high right at the start so that all along the relationship.. if one develops.. she will anticipate and
Expect Blingy-things for no reason other than.. "You are worth it baby".
Question, what makes one person so much more "worth it" than anyone else?
My problem is that most females are raised to Expect to be Spoiled, placed on a pedestal and worshipped as some sort of goddess.. meanwhile the guy
has to work his butt off to pay for all that nice Stuff she gets to keep along with half your stuff when you split-up.
So I say NO to the females raised as Daddy's Princess because they have no concept of what a real human relationship should be based on.. which is
not Money, Lifestyles of the pseudo-rich and almost famous, and lots of Stuff.
If they can't love you enough to live happily together in a tin shed in the bush, then send them on their way quickly to find some other sucker who
will waste megabucks on her.