reply to post by Trublbrwing
You're behavior has nothing to do with anger or strength...
or hatred or love, but it is solely a product of your conditioning.
Just as your wife's behavior relating to her sister was due to her conditioning.
You should check out the work done by Jean Piaget.
This is not evolutionary survival of the fittest work in action folks.
It is just as easy to set up a more practical and efficient model for evolution using cooperation as the basis rather than competition.
What each person experiences and in turn behaves is mostly shaped by their environment in their youth.
This was the nature of Jean Piaget's studies.
If your behavior of making your wife want to hate you causes more personal distress between you and your wife then a shrink who was Freudian in nature
would try to elicit your feelings out of you and toward your wife through a mediator.
It's called talk therapy, basically, and it is unusually effective.
(a sort of Rogerian therapy for all those Psych. geeks out there)
Movies, television shows, and books, like Fight Club, American Psycho, and Dexter, all condition people.
While they may be presenting some sort of artful critique on the American psyche, they are tools that condition people to more violence.
This is the exact same thing that happened with homosexuality.
I am not making a debate about this issue and I do not condemn anyone for engaging in homosexual behaviors.
What I am stating is exactly what happened to condition the population into accepting homosexuality as a normal behavior and not a learning
Homosexuality was qualified as a paraphilia in the DSM until the middle 70's. Right along side pedophilia.
As a matter of fact, it was illegal and very jailable to engage in homosexual activity.
But the 70's changed that.
And a lot of that was due to television.
Three's Company.... The Hollywood Squares...Hello Paul Lynde from the Match Game...Liberace.
I think that you get the picture.
The reason that this is even a topic is because we live in a military/industrial/prison/propaganda matrix.
And these personality traits are profitable.
The homosexual normalization of America had one point. Population reduction.
It is no accident that this occurred right along side Roe v. Wade and the Feminist movement.
When people truly understand what the government learned from people like Edward Bernays, BF Skinner, Albert Bandura, and Abraham Maslow, then the
eyes of reality pop open and will never be shut.