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Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
reply to post by seeashrink
Um, I don't remember anywhere in the OP where I asked about your opinions concerning homosexuals or homosexuality, but you do make a great example of the type of person I was talking about in the OP! Now the question is are you just a really crappy friend or a hypocrite?
Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by Xen0m0rpH
I might discuss it to learn more about how homosexuals think and act, but it's not meant to offend you in the least.
Fantastic - one of the most sensible comments in all 50 odd pages. I like that.
OK, so, just wondering, why don't you "feel its right".
Do you mean not right for you, or anyone?
Do you accept that some people are gay and have no choice in the matter, or not?
Do you think a gay person can or should go straight?
What do you mean when you say its not "right"? Just saying its not natural won't do tho. I need reasons in order to understand your position and that of some the others on here.
Thanks in advance.
Originally posted by King_John
To OP, so you're saying you can't be friends with somebody unless you agree with every life choice they make?
There is nothing about you or me that is designed to be with our same sex.
Originally posted by Dookzor
What I got from this thread is basically:
Gays are allowed to be gay because they have the right to moral, religious and sexual freedom. However, anyone that doesn't agree morally, even if they would never think to treat someone differently based on their sexual preference, is a bigot?
"I have many gay friends", I do... I don't think Gay relationships are wrong. If I did, would it make me love my gay friends any less? Of course not. My Dad is an alcoholic, I disagree with alcohol abuse with my entire soul, yet this has no bearing on my feelings for him (apart from sadness...)
OP, your logic is flawed and your intent noted. Even if it's not by you... yet.
Originally posted by Brood
Originally posted by Dookzor
What I got from this thread is basically:
Gays are allowed to be gay because they have the right to moral, religious and sexual freedom. However, anyone that doesn't agree morally, even if they would never think to treat someone differently based on their sexual preference, is a bigot?
"I have many gay friends", I do... I don't think Gay relationships are wrong. If I did, would it make me love my gay friends any less? Of course not. My Dad is an alcoholic, I disagree with alcohol abuse with my entire soul, yet this has no bearing on my feelings for him (apart from sadness...)
OP, your logic is flawed and your intent noted. Even if it's not by you... yet.
I'm going to address your thoughts on morality, because you seem a little semantically confused. I am gay, and the thought of sleeping with a woman disgusts me... does that make heterosexuality "morally wrong"? I know that one is not "right" while another is "wrong", so the short and simple answer is: NO. You cannot choose your manner sexual attraction or change it if you wish to, so what could it possibly have to do with morals? Absolutely nothing, sorry.
The only time morality comes into the world of sex is when it is not consensual or there is a lack of personal attraction, who you are sexually attracted to has nothing to do with morals because being sexually attracted to something is not an action, nor is it controllable.edit on 2-1-2011 by Brood because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Dookzor
I was just stating some of the things that I have gotten from the responses of people in this thread.
Out of interest what point do you think I was making and what (if any) connection did your post have with mine?
I think you're the only one who is "confused" here, friend.
Originally posted by Brood
Originally posted by Dookzor
I was just stating some of the things that I have gotten from the responses of people in this thread.
And I was just replying to it... I don't neccesarily disagree with what you are saying... I'm just confused as to how you could think it has anything to do with morals... since you brought up "flawed logic".
Out of interest what point do you think I was making and what (if any) connection did your post have with mine?
I really hope that is not a serious question.
Come on, dude.
I think you're the only one who is "confused" here, friend.
Sorry, the dictionary doesn't confuse those of us who know that words actually do have finite definitions...
Originally posted by Dookzor
What I got from this thread is basically:
Gays are allowed to be gay because they have the right to moral, religious and sexual freedom. However, anyone that doesn't agree morally, even if they would never think to treat someone differently based on their sexual preference, is a bigot?
Originally posted by Dookzor
What I got from this thread is basically:
Gays are allowed to be gay because they have the right to moral, religious and sexual freedom. However, anyone that doesn't agree morally, even if they would never think to treat someone differently based on their sexual preference, is a bigot?
"I have many gay friends", I do... I don't think Gay relationships are wrong. If I did, would it make me love my gay friends any less? Of course not. My Dad is an alcoholic, I disagree with alcohol abuse with my entire soul, yet this has no bearing on my feelings for him (apart from sadness...)
OP, your logic is flawed and your intent noted. Even if it's not by you... yet.
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by Dookzor
What I got from this thread is basically:
Gays are allowed to be gay because they have the right to moral, religious and sexual freedom. However, anyone that doesn't agree morally, even if they would never think to treat someone differently based on their sexual preference, is a bigot?
"Gays are ALLOWED to be gay"
"They have the right to be moral"
"I don't think Gay relationships are wrong" (did you unconsciously avoid the word sex)
How some one phrases their statements and what words they choose - - - often says more about their real thoughts - - - then the PC - - - "I'm one of the good guys" - - explanation that they try to imply.
How some one phrases their statements and what words they choose - - - often says more about their real thoughts
Originally posted by Dookzor
As far as I can tell from most of the comments on this thread, some people have a moral objection to homosexuality but are more than happy for Gays to continue about their business (keeping their full body of rights) as long as it isn't forced onto them.
This, IMO, is exactly the right attitude. One generally can't help how they feel (be it sexual preference or issues of morality etc) and the true measure of a person - again, IMO - is how they treat those whom lead lives they don't agree with.
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by Dookzor
As far as I can tell from most of the comments on this thread, some people have a moral objection to homosexuality but are more than happy for Gays to continue about their business (keeping their full body of rights) as long as it isn't forced onto them.
This, IMO, is exactly the right attitude. One generally can't help how they feel (be it sexual preference or issues of morality etc) and the true measure of a person - again, IMO - is how they treat those whom lead lives they don't agree with.
You continue with the PC wording. You are not saying it is OK to be gay. You are saying it is PC for people to accept and agree that all should be treated Equal.
Tolerance is definitely better then bigotry. But . . . .