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Originally posted by Sinnthia
reply to post by neonitus
Not that I am gay but if you have any opinions against the way I was born in any way shape or form and you call yourself my friend, you are a liar.
Originally posted by TheAgentNineteen
Originally posted by Sinnthia
reply to post by neonitus
Not that I am gay but if you have any opinions against the way I was born in any way shape or form and you call yourself my friend, you are a liar.
Prove to me that being "Gay" is something you're born with, then we'll talk. Until then, I will judge people based upon their decisions in life.edit on 12-28-2010 by TheAgentNineteen because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by TheAgentNineteen
Prove to me that being "Gay" is something you're born with, then we'll talk. Until then, I will judge people based upon their decisions in life.edit on 12-28-2010 by TheAgentNineteen because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by TKDRL
reply to post by wayno
More than likely until the "gay gene" is found and proven, there will always people that will take that line of thought. Short of that there will be no way to prove it sufficiently to them. People that dislike gay people are probably not going to take gay peoples' words for it.
Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
This just kills me. In EVERY gay themed thread, those opposed to homosexuals and/or homosexuality inevitably say something like, "I have gay friends, but...", followed by how they disagree with the gay rights movement or homosexuality in general. Well, I got news for you Skippy, if you were really a friend, you would not want that person to have fewer rights than you do, and/or have that person feel like a social outcast, and/or have anything but happiness in their lives and to be able to share that life with the person of their choice.
So the next time you feel the urge to tell us how you have gay friends right in the middle of telling us how homosexuality is wrong, unnatural or unworthy of equal rights, just remember that you are NOT the kind of friend anyone would want to have at best, and just a plain lying hypocrite at worst...
(An aquaintance is NOT the same as a friend...)
Originally posted by DrChuck
You know, its still possible to be friends with someone even if you disagree or dislike something about them. As long as the issue is not the sole basis of the relationship why would it matter? Friends are not acquainted through full and complete compatibility.
And yes, I do have gay friends and I also disagree with homosexuality nor do I like it. But my friendship with them is not defined by someones sexual orientation. They know I don't agree with their orientation and they don't care since our friendship was forged by something much more significant. Our camaraderie has been nurtured through the hardships of medical school which far surpasses the issues of homosexuality.
Originally posted by Annee
That's great. But I do not agree with you. I do believe you have a specific type friendship because of what you shared.
I have No But . . . with my gay friends. None.
Originally posted by joechip
reply to post by civilchallenger
Yeah Jesus said "Judge not..." Remember? And I believe he would have been on a different level of "morality" than his followers, such as yourself (assumption). Therefore, if he didn't judge, when he had the moral superiority (which you don't) you, as a follower of his, should most certainly not. He didn't judge the thief, but decide to befriend him anyway. He loved him and overlooked the thievery. Totally different than the story you're laying down.
You see, if you consider the homosexual lifestyle to be a "sin", you are paying attention to what you believe to be another's immorality, when the Big Guy himself told you not to. Look to your own heart. Worry about that.
Bad Christian! Read your good book. (I forgive you...)
Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by civilchallenger
Your reference to befriend is to extend support to someone in bad circumstances and need. It is not the same thing as friendship. It is totally one way.
Gay people are not in need of anyone's charity. It is true friendship we are talking about here; the kind that involves mutuality and equality -- no looking down or feeling sorry for anyone because of who they are.
Originally posted by Annee
reply to post by DrChuck
You know that joke?
The Lone Ranger says to Tonto as they are surrounded by "Indians".
Tonto: What are WE going to do.
And Tonto responds: What do you mean WE.
If a man told me all women belong in the kitchen. We would Never be friends. No matter how friendly we became.
Believe what you want.
I
So yes, its very easy for a "good"/"true" Christian to claim that he has homosexual friends, and yet at the same time believe his friend may end up in hell upon death due to that sexual orientation.
Originally posted by wayno
reply to post by DrChuck
You are confusing being friendly with being a friend. I am friendly, usually, with people who have different political and religious views or who have different opinions about a wide range of things.
That doesn't make us friends. I have very few people in my life who have that designation. None of them has an issue with the fact that I am gay. I like it that way.
Life is too short to try and please everyone.