reply to post by The_Liberator
Good luck, you are going to need it.
Hope you planned this out real carefully, you should have 1) gotten a really good lawyer and 2) If you want to have a relationship with your son,
taken him away somewhere and than had divorce papers served on your wife instead of just running out (desertion).
You just up and leaving will be classified in court as abandoment and will assure your wife custody of your son.
In a court of law, marriage is a legally binding contract. When a child, or children are involved the woman usually always has the upper hand. The
court will now award her custody of your child and 45% of your salary. She will alienate your child from you. If you are lucky, you might get to see
your son for 48 hours every two weeks. Forget Christmas plays, helping him with school work, even being able to know where he lives at unless your
wife will allow the aforementioned.
Your parents (the paternal grandparents) will also now be cut out of his life.
Why don't men think with the head on their shoulders.
You knew she was a spoiled princess and a narcissist when you put that ring on her finger and said I do.
Well now you are up feces creek without a paddle.
Good luck, you're going to need it.
Good luck to your son, he is going to need it.
Maybe I should reply to the post, should the state decide if a couple can have a baby.
Normally I am not for regulation by the state but when the divorce rate is 45% and most kids are key latch kids, raising themselves by age 9 maybe the
state should regulate if and when a couple should bring a baby into a relationship.
People should live together for at least five years, than if they want a child make sure their relationship and financial status is stable THEN
Another poor innocent kid being dragged through divorce and living in a one parent household.
It is my personal opinion that many (not all) younger people today for the most part are spoiled, selfish and not capable of working through problems.
They are use to instant gratification and having everything "their way".
Something is drastically wrong when the divorce rate is so high.
Why why why do people have children before they are sure their relationship and finances are stable?
Haven't any of you people heard of birth control and planning important stuff out.
And yes, I consider bringing another soul into this world one of the most important things one will do.
And all this for global warming?
My husband believes
-- If Fox News reports it, it must be the truth.
-- Our governments look out for their people's best interests
-- 911 was done by Osama bin Laden
-- Our votes count
-- Global warming is real
-- There is no alien presence here on the planet
-- JFK was shot by a lone gun man and the official investigation is the real story.
-- There was no crash at Roswell.
-- There may be "life out there" but they haven't come here yet.
-- Most important things just seem to happen and are not planned........in other words, most "conspiracies" are stupid.
-- A one NWO would be good because it would regulate people more and most people are too stupid to regulate their lives.
and on and on and on................but, I really love my husband with all my heart and soul and us being older (you get crankier as you age) we sort
of just don't discuss things that we both know are going to aggrevate the other.
Pretty much he comments on the news (Fox, CNN, etc) and I just say oh that's interesting and go onto ATS.
Of all the reasons for leaving your wife and son, you chose global warming?
edit on 20-12-2010 by ofhumandescent because: grammar