posted on Dec, 19 2010 @ 08:31 PM
I come from a "broken home".
I would never, and have never, cheated. Nor has any man I've been involved with. Yes, I'm pretty sure.
They were like me. Adverse to drama. And serious about life and wanting to work together. Sometimes things don't work out - but there is no reason to
be an asshole.
I could've cleaned my exH out to the tune of close to half a mil. Took not one cent from him. Why would I? Just because we were no longer getting
along and it turned out that he had far different future plans then I did - well - that is no reason to be an asshole and take the guy's stuff.
My next serious man was a musician. Why would I take anything from him, either? He had little money and few possessions - but - a vindictive person
will take or ruin whatever they can. Or, when we began to have issues - I could've demanded he give up music to be with me. But of course I would
NEVER be like this.
No longer "getting along with" a person should not mean you wish them harm. I had issues with these people, but that didn't mean I lost all
human feeling and decency.
I'm sure we've all had "break ups" with friends too - there is no need to get ugly about it nor disrespect someone. Before or after.
I am not really religious but I DO believe in the "Golden Rule" of treating others how you wish to be treated.
Honesty and integrity are VERY important to me! I am a biz person also - and I ALWAYS conduct myself ethically - yes indeed - there are even honest
and decent biz people too!
As far as sex goes - I think as in all else - you need to know what you want and be happy with what you have. Some are happy with monogamy, some are
unhappy with a veritable banquet of sex. Look at Tiger Woods. I remember thinking - how unhappy he must be - he has everything that would make anyone
green with envy - money, fame, a beautiful wife who seems like a nice person - and yet - he cheats. And then cheats more. Even the cheating wasn't
These people, it's sad. I do believe the "Quagmire" character on Family Guy was named Quagmire for a reason. He is in a quandary. He doesn't know
what he wants. And/or cannot appreciate what he has.
I think TPTB through the media use sex to distract us as well. Your life will FINALLY! be happy and great once you do this sex or get this person. But
then they keep it going. Now you need THIS! *THEN* everything will be AOK! Think about it. "They" do this with food, possessions, occupations,
locations - you're always supposed to be not quite right or happy enough because we need to sell you *this*......
My relatives were cheaters, drunks, and jerks in general - I would very much like to have a nice, peaceful home All I can do to make this happen is
be the kind of person I would like to be with. What else can we do?