posted on Dec, 19 2010 @ 01:53 AM
Originally posted by DisturbedToo
reply to post by mayabong
Being a jerk is not necessarily the key. The key is to honestly not care, just don't look for a chick. Disinterest in even the hottest girl at the
party/club/bar/etc. will drive them nuts. If they see your NOT looking for a girl ,it seems to make them REALLY interested in you. :::Special note:::
You must be interacting with said female in some fashion...AKA playing pool, darts, etc. And you MUST have a sense of humor!!!
Sense of humour - huge turn on for any girl.
It's true, we want guys to notice us and we know
it when they do, but all of my friends have the same opinion: too much attention is a
turn-off. That's not to say don't pay her compliments or act like a f*ckwit. I think that the sexiest guys are the cute, unfailingly nice ones who
are happy to hang out and talk with no strings attached, at a party or wherever, playing wii bowling or something, having fun and a few laughs..
Although, ignoring a girl and merely acting like you're disinterested are different things. Interact with her, don't ignore her completely. Hang out
with her, don't expect anything, go with the flow of things.
I have never
been one to go for a jerk. I'm basically repelled by them. Perhaps I'm just a different breed. I know that a friend of mine
falls all over jerks just because they happen to be gorgeous. It's insanity. I have never understood it. I think that she thinks she can change them,
tame them or something. I've told her countless times that it's never going to happen. The only way a guy will 'change' is if he decides to
himself. Same with anything.
So, the long and short of it is, if you want a lady of substance
be nice, smile a lot, make her laugh, don't force her into anything and, of
course, be yourself. If you're a jerk by nature, you might want to work on that.