Ahh I am sorry. Broken hearts are painful.

I just kinda read the posts, but I would not go see her, you need to figure out if you even want to continue the relationship.

right now, you just need to focus on you. Fell the emotions and I do promise you will get through this and will be fine.

Now as far as a baby(?) get your emotions in check first, then if there is a baby, you can move forward with testing and paperwork and such. But for now, focus on you, and your well being.

I'm going to echo Riley and others here...and say, she doesn't deserve you...move on.

I guess I should have seen this coming since more then times then I can count there is usually some women who will cheat on their boyfriends while they are away in some strange land.

Without the commitment of marriage, it's pretty much a given (heck, even then, and I know this from experience, saw it with my parents, though it was Dad who strayed....)

I know many people in various services and NONE of them managed to keep their girlfriend/boyfriend when they got back stateside, except for those who made the commitment and got married (and even some of them didn't keep from straying).

Some people just can't take the loneliness...and go looking for others.

It's romantic, but naive, to think otherwise. Chalk it up as an important lesson, and don't let it get you down. Probably better you found out now, rather than later, and at least she had the guts to fess up to you, so that's something. Think about this way, next time you're carousing with the guys, you've got nothing tying you down, and can let loose a bit.

What a shame! Your off fighting for your country in Iraq and she's back home cheating and having kids with another guy.

Dont give up. Though it probably seems like the easiest thing to do right now. The right woman for you is out there and you will find her, it just takes some time. I wouldnt contact that woman ever again, thats ridiculous.

I know it must hurt, but if you ever need to talk, your ATS community is here for ya bro!

SOme days are just meh.....

And to think it has been 3 months since I broke up with her and I have nearly completely forgotten about her, I guess time does heal wounds after all. Once again I would like to give thanks to yall for being there for me on hard times. Hopefully I can find that special someone someday. Hears to some good times ahead.