how come women play that mind game when you ask them whats wrong or whats for dinner..? they tend to jump around their true feelings and expect
me to know what theyre thinking.
Yes, they expect you to know, because as her loved one, you are magically supposed to know exactly where her head is at...even though it should have
been obvious by now, that we don't. This is one of those things where you just can't win. (see below)
i asked my wife what our plans were for dinner, and she got mad for me asking... like i told her to make me dinner.
It's all in HOW you ask. Did you say, "Honey, what should WE do for dinner?" or did you say something like, "What's for dinner?" Make sure to make it
a WE question... Oh, and women routinely don't know what they want for dinner (they know only what they DON'T want, and still won't fess up to it).
So, pick whatever you're in the mood for (especially if something she likes), and then watch her reactions. Keep making suggestions if you get the
stink eye, but make them quick, and once you pick one, STICK with it.
or you ask them whats wrong, and they say, "o nothing" so i continue to play some COD and 20 mins later its, "you never pat attention to me,
you even know somethings wrong?" well i did jusf ask ya...
But you're supposed to KNOW what's wrong. Another one of those, just can't win scenarios. We guys are looking for a RESOLUTION....gals don't have the
same goal, not really. Your mistake was to keep doing what you were doing. Even though she said nothing, if you have to ask, something is wrong.
You'll have to show the sacrifice, stop what you are doing, and try to talk it out. Admit you're an idiot, and need to be told the problem to address
it (it will save time).
Why did my misses hit my over the head with remote after i turned the TV over when she was watching X Factor she even said she would tape me to
the wall if i did it again
She probably didn't know where the tape was...and the remote was just more handy. Get a DVR, problem solved.
i still have the "brown love" issue guys.......
its serious and i need advice
You shouldn't have to do something you don't want to do. Maybe find some other things your partner hasn't done, that would also interest you. Chances
are, your partner is really just looking for something to change it up. If this is really a particular fetish though...this could lead to straying.
You have to identify whether it's just a curiosity or a real fetish. Check their porn, if a large percentage is of this type, then it's probably a
fetish, and you should either try it out at least once, or hope that porn alone will satisfy the fetish (while realizing that if the person does get
the opportunity to explore the fetish...they probably will).
As for my own credentials, I've been married now for almost 7 years, and it's my only marriage. My wife is also my best friend, and I'm usually
considered to be a great husband by her friends. Of course, I still make mistakes all the time too (as my wife will tell you), but I've learned what I
feel are some valuable insights into this area, and can only offer my advice for you to read over, and use what you like, and throw out the rest.
edit on 16-11-2010 by Gazrok because: (no reason given)