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Originally posted by thewarehouse
Its seems I'm the only adult here, so I answer you "boy"
You don't know the difference between a sexual orientation and an fetish, because your sexual education is based on pornos. Shrugs' who cares ..edit on 14-11-2010 by thewarehouse because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by OzWeatherman
Originally posted by thewarehouse
Its seems I'm the only adult here, so I answer you "boy"
You don't know the difference between a sexual orientation and an fetish, because your sexual education is based on pornos. Shrugs' who cares ..edit on 14-11-2010 by thewarehouse because: (no reason given)
Best answer anyone could have given
Originally posted by dontreally
How in hells name is that relevant? His post made no sense, ansd clearly he dont speak goody english, with his "an english' and putting punctuation after an s, that already pluralized the word.
Who cares? i care. I dont like this lie going around that being gay is a irreversible condition. No, its a life choice. You either do, and commit to it, or you find some way to overcome it (for instance by getting in touch with organizations who help people with these things).
Originally posted by LordBucket
Repetition is useful, but intensity is just as relevant. Also, early imprinting may be especially significant. The first time someone has an intense sexual experience is likely to stay with them for life. It's much easier to "unlearn" something acquired later. Someone whose very first sexual experience is a pleasurable and emotionally significant homosexual experience at an early age will have a more difficult time giving it up than someone who casually masturbated to gay porn a couple times in college.
So is smoking. And yes, people who choose to stop smoking can teach themselves to stop smoking. I agree that homosexuality might not be healthy, and I agree that it is a condition that can be overcome. But in terms of how unhealthy, I would put it in a similar category as smoking or being overweight. Not something we want to encourage. And these behaviors may often be indicative of a deeper problem. But they're probably not the end of the world either.
I think that comparison is not a very fair one. Yes, you gave up porn, but could you give up heterosexuality? I think you could. There are people who choose celibacy for religious reasons. But do you see how that might be a bit more difficult than merely giving up porn? Can it be done? Yes, of course. And yes, homosexuals can stop acting on their desires, and with a properly disciplined mind they may be able to stop having those desires altogether. But I wonder if your efforts might be better spent understanding the condition than telling others that they're dirty and animalistic for it.
Originally posted by OzWeatherman
Originally posted by dontreally
How in hells name is that relevant? His post made no sense, ansd clearly he dont speak goody english, with his "an english' and putting punctuation after an s, that already pluralized the word.
Well.....
Who cares? i care. I dont like this lie going around that being gay is a irreversible condition. No, its a life choice. You either do, and commit to it, or you find some way to overcome it (for instance by getting in touch with organizations who help people with these things).
That statement above shows your lack of immaturity and understanding of the how a homosexuals mind works. Im betting that you are either a child or some religious nut, hell bent on insisitng that sexual orientation is choice or an illness rather than something we can not choose.
In our day and age, Im still surprised that people have this attitude. Thought people's brains were more eveolved than that, so thanks for proving that wrong
Originally posted by capgirl
Whatever you say =)
As for me, I never had an attraction towards a male, nor do I ever want too. I tried to see myself with a man when I was a teen, thinking about what it would be like and blah blah....doesnt seem right for me. I am gay. And proud!! =D =D I am happy the way I am and even if it was a choice, I would choose being gay. Not a choice though..
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Originally posted by dontreally
Originally posted by capgirl
Whatever you say =)
As for me, I never had an attraction towards a male, nor do I ever want too. I tried to see myself with a man when I was a teen, thinking about what it would be like and blah blah....doesnt seem right for me. I am gay. And proud!! =D =D I am happy the way I am and even if it was a choice, I would choose being gay. Not a choice though..
edit to fix and re arrange some wordsedit on 14-11-2010 by capgirl because: (no reason given)
Well, if youve been reading our discussion you would see that it is possible, even LordBucket agrees that it can be changed, only reserving the opinion that it really doesnt matter to begin with, because he finds nothing morally wrong with it...
Do you think its not possible because thats what the media says? how than do you explain the many gays who are now ex-gays, who literally have a heterosexual drvie now? Do they not exist? or do they disturb your convenient fairy tale that youre not responsible for your behavior?
You are responsible, and in your opinion, youre proud of that. Which is your choice.
Originally posted by capgirl
Originally posted by dontreally
Originally posted by capgirl
Whatever you say =)
As for me, I never had an attraction towards a male, nor do I ever want too. I tried to see myself with a man when I was a teen, thinking about what it would be like and blah blah....doesnt seem right for me. I am gay. And proud!! =D =D I am happy the way I am and even if it was a choice, I would choose being gay. Not a choice though..
edit to fix and re arrange some wordsedit on 14-11-2010 by capgirl because: (no reason given)
Well, if youve been reading our discussion you would see that it is possible, even LordBucket agrees that it can be changed, only reserving the opinion that it really doesnt matter to begin with, because he finds nothing morally wrong with it...
Do you think its not possible because thats what the media says? how than do you explain the many gays who are now ex-gays, who literally have a heterosexual drvie now? Do they not exist? or do they disturb your convenient fairy tale that youre not responsible for your behavior?
You are responsible, and in your opinion, youre proud of that. Which is your choice.
Oh I agree that gays can be turned back to hetrosexuals. The ones that CHOSE to be gay. I didnt choose how I was born. I grew up always being in a church environment, where I was told many things are wrong. Homosexuality may be moraly wrong, but I didnt choose it. =)
Ah the ignorance. I love it. You all have a good night
Originally posted by dontreally
When i was 17 or 18 i had a very bad pornography addiction. I simply could not get enough of it. 3 or 4 times a day i would masturbate and besides smelling bad, i noticed that my desire became lessened. I no longer became as excited as i used to, so, for a brief period, i began looking at transexual porn, and than i started feeling a attraction to men.
Originally posted by Lysergic
Originally posted by dontreally
When i was 17 or 18 i had a very bad pornography addiction. I simply could not get enough of it. 3 or 4 times a day i would masturbate and besides smelling bad, i noticed that my desire became lessened. I no longer became as excited as i used to, so, for a brief period, i began looking at transexual porn, and than i started feeling a attraction to men.
I.
cant.
breathe.
aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh HAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHAHAHA
did you ever consider bathing after the spankfest? thats my only question.
Originally posted by OzWeatherman
OP, have you ever thought that you may be bisexual?
If you are sexually attracted to men and women, then you might be
Originally posted by dontreally
Calling me Bi is a low blow.
I dont get the ambivalence. If something is wrong,
unhealthy, why encourage it? why the apathy?
kabbalah
sodomy
this is an actual occultic practice which is
for this precise purpose, to contact demonic powers
why the apathy?
Originally posted by OzWeatherman
Originally posted by dontreally
Calling me Bi is a low blow.
WTF?
You are attracted to men, and women, and all thats in between, yet thats a low blow?
I think your sexual orientation is the least of your issues