posted on Aug, 12 2013 @ 09:07 PM
Ok... nice thread. Read some interesting replies here and I don't want to distract from that with my observation so I will put it out there first.
There's some great points in here.
...BUT.... This thing about finding beauty in prostitution....people..!
Look, I'm not trying to say I'm above making mistakes, because I have done my share of dating around and giving a chance to people who didn't
deserve it and hopping in the sack with them... but at the time, I thought they truly deserved a chance... only to find that they were just trying to
get a foot in the door and had no real concept of concern for another and respect for another. It was often just their lust that professed false
emotions and they couldn't even use the good sense to treat me with comradere but rather went crazy with insecurities and fears that caused them to
see me more as a challenge they felt they really couldn't live up to so they pitched their fits when they felt behind in their game... but that's
not my problem, it's theirs.
Giving people chances freely will show you their true colors quick because they drop their their pretenses a lot of times when I drop my own... and at
first liking them and thinking they deserve a chance, I don't really play games and make people jump through hoops and spend a bunch of money on me
first, or judge them by job and car criteria and all that stuff. I try to look at the person.... and when you make a person feel at ease and they can
be who they are, they REALLY start acting like who they are... and a lot of times, they just happen to be a piece of crap.
That leaves me with the nauseated feeling concerning making those mistake, but I make no haste in getting rid of them after I see who they are. Never
made the mistake of marrying one. I don't waste that kind of time. It is what it is... I don't pretend. And when it AINT, I don't pretend either.
At present, I have my sights set on exactly what I want so I'm not doing all that worthless dating crap.... Thank God. Y'all can have em all.
I'm not trying to go on about myself but wanted to point things out because despite making mistakes, it doesn't mean that I don't think that sex
should be meaningful and sincere. I'm just making the point that in my mistakes, this is how I generally felt....I believe in the notion that it is a
sacred bond between two people.
How someone can bring themselves to be a prostitute is beyond me. It is disgusting to think of a empty shallow man having his way with you simply
because he is horny and has some cash. It is truly repulsive... and quite frankly, I'd rather die. I think it would be more noble to die then to
uphold the sinful carnality and empty lust that drives many in this world to do the things they do and is really a HUGE problem with the human race.
Now, Im not saying that I think women who have made that mistake should be persecuted... but it is a MISTAKE. If they enjoy this kind of work, then
they enjoy giving themselves over to just anyone without emotion and it's disgusting. If they hate it, then how could they bring themselves to do it?
If they had to talk themselves into it with some booze and then feel deep regret, I forgive them.... because I am not void of mistakes, but to uphold
the idea that this terrible thing that has caused so many problems and is the result of even GREATER problems... it's sadistic! It is finding beauty
in sacrificing our women!
How can anyone think that is beautiful? Because there is a sacrificial sadness to it it. WHY UPHOLD THAT?!
I also find it disturbing that the context seemed to be used in third person... like it's ok to watch another woman give herself up to this kind of
sin and sacrifice, but would the people who said such things.... How would they feel if someone looked at them and said, put your heels on, get out
there and do your job. Would they think that was beautiful? I BET THE WOULDN'T.
I bet when that nasty man went for his prize they would wish they could just fly away into the clouds... and I bet they wouldn't think there was
anything beautiful about it... and if they still thought it was beautiful, then what they really see beauty in is promiscuity.... casual sex,
sacrificing your own body with no emotion and that is perversion, not love and beauty.
Arousal in the pain of a person is, imo, a SICKNESS.
Arousal in giving yourself over. Arousal in being controlled. HORRIBLE!
It is active destruction of the sanctity of devotion. It is arousal of a sacrificial body, not aware of the person inside, not caring or even thinking
about how they feel or their identity.
I think anyone who advocates the prostitution of another, & speaks these things openly for other men to hear, they need to first put themselves in
that position before they sacrifice another up to it in theory. It is much easier to uphold this terrible thing in society from afar. It eats away
like a moth at the fabric of morality.
Would you find it beautiful if it was your own daughter?