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Originally posted by sykickvision
I was born into a Baptist home. We went to church every Sunday and I actively participated in church activity of one sort of the other until I was in my early twenties. I became sick of the dogma & church politics & theology overall. My wife was raised Catholic until around age 10/12...then from then on pretty much agnostic/atheist.
We have two children now, ages 7 and 5. They like to ask questions, and we always answer as truthfully as we can with the knowledge we have regarding the subject.
They have asked "Who/What is god?" - and we tell them that some people believe there is an invisible person that lives in the sky that created everything.
They ask "Where did frogs come from?" - we tell them that at one time there weren't any frogs, there were just little specks of things in the water that were like tiny animals and over long periods of time they changed and kept changing and some things became frogs, some became bugs, some became turtles...(not EXACTLY a perfect description, but it sufficed)
THEN they asked "What happens when you die" - we told them that your body stops working, and over time it turns back into the stuff that it's made of. Some of it goes into the water and feeds plants, some might get eaten by a bug, that will get eaten by a frog, that will get eaten by a snake, that will get eaten by a bird....
Now...the funny thing about this, to me, is that they seem to be fine with that. It didn't seem as if non-existence bothered them in the least bit. There was no fear, not even the slightest twitch of the neck, eye, or jaw that would indicate any uncomfortable feeling. They didn't ask "Well where do WE go?", they didn't say "What will we do when we're dead"...it apparently didn't leave any nagging thoughts behind - they haven't asked about it since. They understand death, they've had pets die - they've seen death - never human though, but death is death. When you look deeper - death isn't what it seems. It's simply a transformation of matter that has already been in existence for a very long time. It never stops moving, and it never stops changing - some changes happen in milliseconds, some take thousands or millions of years but the point is that it is a fluid action.
I'm wondering as I watch them wonder, if I'm not catching some glimpse of some secret that we've long forgotten and pressed into the back of our minds as we've slowly allowed the dogmas and teachings of others that would have us do their bidding were grafted into our thoughts until we believed it to be true. Have our minds been hammered and forged since birth by religious/spiritual dogma for so long that we've forgotten the entire essence of our nature? They know to be safe, and be careful - but that death does come to one and all. My adult mind is still confounded that they were totally at peace with it. And here I am, as time permits, watching battles between members on death and religion and science and evolution over and over and over - and I'm thinking about everything that I'm reading...but as I do, I'm also thinking about whatever was going on in the minds of those two little boys when they asked that one question...and they didn't hear anything regarding an immortal soul or an eternity in paradise or hell - I'm wondering exactly what that was in their minds, when they heard the truth, made them feel at peace with it.
Now you can say what you want - you can say it's childish innocence and they don't understand the permanence of physical death - but they do.
Originally posted by sykickvision
We encourage our children to express themselves, and to seek things out for themselves.
Personally, I find it hard to believe that when someone knows and has more of an understanding of the universe than what is commonplace, I would think that religion would be the last place they would find any sort of refuge and comfort.
Who am I to say how he lives his life, after my job as a parent is done?
Although it's highly unlikely it would come to either of them suddenly professing an undying dedication to any god, the possibility can't entirely be ruled out.
I suspect that the blend of my over-analytical mind and their mother's staggering IQ, that in whatever paths they choose to take they will ask and inquire many question, leaving very few stones unturned.
I would hope that they wouldn't cast truth aside to be led astray by what I believe to be a fantasy, but the more I think about it now, and how we all have our personal struggle to find truth and meaning in life...I think I would be more disappointed in them NOT giving religion a try than if they never did.
A New Heaven and a New Earth
1 Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,”[a] for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. 2 I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
5 He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”
6 He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. 7 Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children. 8