Do you (OP) think you will be MORE comfortable working there, if you complain about it, and these women now just glare at you, talk behind your back,
etc. instead of flirt with you?
Sure, it's technically harassment, but you have to weigh the consequences of ALL of your possible actions here, and make the call. I'm not saying what
they are doing is "right", but the real world is just that kid...(and yep, at 18, I can call you "kid"
Let's be frank....it only bothers you because you see them as "ugly"....if you thought they were "hot", we wouldn't even be having this
conversation...would we? Just something to think about....and that maybe at least some of the problem is in the mirror...???
As another poster mentioned, this could be an OPPORTUNITY... Look, I once was in a similar situation. However, I took the time to talk to these
ladies, and got to know THEM, as people. Pretty soon, we were taking breaks at the same time, etc. and let me tell you, I learned more about women
during the few months I worked there with them, during those breaks, just by talking to them, than I did in all my years of life prior to that. (the
flirting also dropped off considerably too, after just a brief period of increase).... (I was one of only about 3 males on this shift, with about 12
other females, and I was in my early 20's, they were mostly in their upper 30's, 40's. These talks were really with the same 4 other gals. In fact, if
it wasn't for them, I probably would have never got with my wife, as even without knowing her personally, they were able to read signals just through
the conversation, that I seemed to keep missing.
edit on 9-11-2010 by Gazrok because: (no reason given)