Help! All the women "like" me at the office, page 3


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reply posted on 8-11-2010 @ 09:51 PM by VictorVonDoom
reply to post by Haydn_17



Wait a minute. You're 18 and you have an office job in this economy? I find that hard to believe

The rest, about the girls and all, I totally buy that. I have the same problem, bitches givin' me the eye all the time, rubbin' against my leg, kissing me whenever my face gets close enough. Maybe I should stop taking my dogs to the shop. They're just dog biscuit chasers, they really don't care about the inner me.



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reply posted on 8-11-2010 @ 10:29 PM by VictorVonDoom
reply to post by cupocoffee



And my employees The one on the left is in charge of security, the one on the right is in charge of morale, the one in the center is a trainee.



reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 12:12 AM by purplemonkeydishwasher
reply to post by Haydn_17



Buddy, if you're anything like me, it's electromagnetic energy and there isn't a damn thing you could do about it. It doesn't matter if they are single or not, if we're in proximity, I attract them.. it's boggled my mind for years.


reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 01:03 PM by Haydn_17
Originally posted by NWOnoworldorder
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post by vqsnapp



as funny as that idea is, i dont think that he should have to fake his sexuality in order to get these women to leave him alone...its a form of sexual harrasment, if he is in a situation that hes not comfortable with hes being harrased, if it was a woman and all the men were standing cupping thier balls or conveniently dropping pencils under her skirt then it would be sexual harrasment.

i know flirting goes on in the workplace, mostly to releive boredom, but when u start feeling uncomfortable about it then a line is being crossed.


Thank you, someone who understands!!


reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 01:04 PM by Haydn_17
reply to post by grey580



Ugly.
Second Line
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reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 01:18 PM by Gazrok
Do you (OP) think you will be MORE comfortable working there, if you complain about it, and these women now just glare at you, talk behind your back, etc. instead of flirt with you?

Sure, it's technically harassment, but you have to weigh the consequences of ALL of your possible actions here, and make the call. I'm not saying what they are doing is "right", but the real world is just that kid...(and yep, at 18, I can call you "kid" )

Let's be frank....it only bothers you because you see them as "ugly"....if you thought they were "hot", we wouldn't even be having this conversation...would we? Just something to think about....and that maybe at least some of the problem is in the mirror...???

As another poster mentioned, this could be an OPPORTUNITY... Look, I once was in a similar situation. However, I took the time to talk to these ladies, and got to know THEM, as people. Pretty soon, we were taking breaks at the same time, etc. and let me tell you, I learned more about women during the few months I worked there with them, during those breaks, just by talking to them, than I did in all my years of life prior to that. (the flirting also dropped off considerably too, after just a brief period of increase).... (I was one of only about 3 males on this shift, with about 12 other females, and I was in my early 20's, they were mostly in their upper 30's, 40's. These talks were really with the same 4 other gals. In fact, if it wasn't for them, I probably would have never got with my wife, as even without knowing her personally, they were able to read signals just through the conversation, that I seemed to keep missing.

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reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 04:59 PM by mblahnikluver
Ahhh the "bend and snap"




It's been proven! Works every time...

Just tell them you are not interested, be honest.


reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 06:06 PM by LadySkadi
reply to post by mblahnikluver



ah, the bend and snap.

the very FIRST thing I thought of when I read the opening post.




reply posted on 9-11-2010 @ 06:11 PM by DieSektor
reply to post by Haydn_17



It just feels really awkward, and there isnt anyone i can talk to about it, because of how stupid it sounds lol.


One of my really close friends was in a situation much like yours he started working at a credit union. The only guy surrounded by ladys all day long. I was jealous for sure because I saw the women he worked with. Eventually he got to know a couple of them who happened to be friends with each other outside the workplace. Just as you might think I got introduced to them it was great and all thanks to my friend. After a few months and occasional nights out we all became close. I even got to sleep over Amanda's house all because I was not a self conscious tool. I was cool and reserved and most important persistent. Unfortunately my friend got fired from the credit union from sleeping in too late which was kind of my fault for partying with him one night how ironic eh.


Haydn only good things can come from being an outgoing person even it it means playing their head games.
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