reply to post by Aeons
I am not trying to be a fan of rape in any context.
However, I feel it is a very slippery slope. Suppose every disgruntled spouse decides as part of a divorce hearing or a custody battle to suddenly
play the rape card. They could claim that over the course of a 10 year marriage they were raped repeatedly. Sometimes it was induced by alcohol and
they were unable to consent, sometimes it was coercion or a "guilt trip." Sometimes it could have been considered "forcible" because they were
half asleep and their husband persisted until he got what he wanted without any clear consent.
How will any man ever be able to defend against such accusations? There has to be an "implied consent" from a spouse absent any direct rebuttal at
the time of the incident. If she clearly says, "No, leave me alone." Then that is one thing, but to come back at some point and show a repetitive
offense by every gray area of the law is a very scary thing!
People should be free to do things with their spouse that they would not do with a stranger. Alcohol is a clear example. I would never have sex with
a fall-down drunk stranger, but I might do it with my wife, because I know I have her consent.....at least I think I know.....but what if 10 years
from now she decides there were a dozen instances where I didn't haver her consent?