Originally posted by Skyfloating
From what Ive seen, much of the porn beng filmed is kind of fast-food like, kind of low-quality, kind of sterile and heartless. I dont know why porn
is filmed that way. I think they could do much better Business if they put some thought into it.
as far as i know porns are usually made for men. i won.t go so far that men are usually attracted by fast-food and therefore porns the way they are,
are just good for men, but they claim that it won.t work on women since women usually can.t seperate sex and love.
which might be true!
i don.t know how it is with other people or in a theoretical way, sex is a very personal subject and so i usually take it personally
to me sex is much more than just the act with a partner or masturbation – it is connected with love and caring, and when being connected with love
and caring you can set its truly energy free.
there is also the key for creativity. it is about love - doing your stuff with love and with caring and it gets better
so suppressing sex creates the exact opposite of love as we see with the example of the pedophile abuse by some catholic priests.
usually most people are not in balance with their sexual life - to much on one hand and starving on the other hand.
the balance has to be found by everybody on her own.
i am usually scared by the prudish hysteria about sex as it is presented for example in american media. or as somebody in this thread said: keep sex
away from children.
we are all sexual beings right from the beginning of our life. but our sexuallity expresses differently in each phase of our life. sex is also
sensualism - the german word for it can also be translated by sexiness
(just found it out) - so if you watch a mother nursing her baby with her
breast- nothing better nothing more sensual - the baby is not only getting food it gets a whole world of stability, love and caring.
if you watch it you will realize that it utterly enjoyes it.
and also the mother experience feelings that can be described as sexual feeling but totally different from those she experience with her partner.
and this is not meant in a pedophilia way.
so the best - in my opinion and being a mom of a meanwhile teenager - is to talk to kids, to tell them about it in a way they understand. this helps
them to find their own balance one day.
it develops during our life and with the beginning of puberty it changes to be the way we are experience it today
being a woman i have the pleasure of experience sexuality in a cyclic way. some women seem to hate it. but to me it is always a joy to experience
myself in that way - like a wave - there is the moment when you know that there is the possibility to create a new life - and even the menstruation
reminds me of that power!
it is cyclic like the seasons and even the cycle of being pregnant creates a powerful feeling in me.
sometimes i feel pretty pity for men who are not aware of this. who are not able to experience this.
i think it is important to combine sex with love and caring and honesty.
honesty towards yourself and honesty towards everybody else.