posted on Oct, 21 2010 @ 02:33 AM
I am a 26 year old virgin. And I am destined to be alone for my entire life. I am in the same boat as you are. You are not special, you are not a
leader, and you're not Jesus. You never will be. Women don't see you in a sexual manner, because your personality doesn't reflect sexual
attraction. You're "the nice guy" " the friend guy" that is the way it is. I learned this back when I was 24, after trying to hard to date a
girl, she just didn't see me as boyfriend material. I am responsible, I own my own business, I'm not bad looking, I'm reliable, honest, caring,
faithful and loyal. I'm pretty much exactly what every girl looks for in a man. But my personality, ( not my looks) lack sexual attraction. And
because of this, I will be single for my entire life. I have come to accept it, and I no longer try to go on dates, even if I sometimes wonder what
I'm missing, especially when all my friends are getting married and having kids, I know that life is not for me. I have learned to become
independant, and don't need anyone to be with me. I am not afraid of dying a virgin.
You just have to figure out who you are, and what you want out of life. You don't have a set future, you don't have a destiny. You make that
yourself, by your actions and your decisions. You may be religious, I am not. but religious or not, there is only one, and will always be, only one,
Jesus Christ. And when you think about it this way, if Jesus was 33.5 when he died, and you're 33.5 now, shouldn't you be on the cross right now,
already having been a leader?