posted on Oct, 14 2010 @ 01:36 PM
reply to post by getreadyalready
It is a valid question, because to be honest, I don't understand the flipside of that argument. What does loving someone have to do with having sex
with someone else? It sounds noble, and it is politically correct, but the fact is that a very, very high percentage of marriages have infidelity.
Does that mean they don't love each other?
Yes, it does mean they don't love each other or that they had a moment of drunken madness, or they were stressed about something but the majority of
the time it's an indication they haven't fallen out of love with their partner.
Maybe love and sex are connected because sex is one of the most intimate and personal things in the world and that bond is shared between you and the
person you love, it's an exclusive relationship and that makes it all the more special.
I can honestly say that I have loved many women. I have also had sex with many women. The two lists are not mutually exclusive. Many of the women that
I have loved were never sexual partners, and many of the women that were sexual partners were the farthest thing from love. Hell, I didn't even like
some of them!
Of course there is a difference between sexual partners and a partner you love, but surely when your in love you have the full package, physically
attraction, emotional attraction etc
I suppose you and I will never understand one another. I am never jealous. I am supremely confident in my role as a husband, father, and lover. If my
wife forgets how good I am, she is welcome to try some other loser and she will quickly be reminded why she married me. I expect the courtesy of
honesty if that day ever comes, because I would feel hurt if she chose to do it behind my back. I am attracted to a lot of women, I very rarely act on
it, but if I were overwhelmed by an attraction, maybe even an emotion for another women, it would not mean that I don't love my wife, it only means
that I also have feelings for someone else.
We probably won't understand each other, but believe me theres more people who would class me as normal and you as abnormal
I don't mean that in
an offensive way but it's true...
Anyway super stud, there's always someone out there better than you, your over confidence could suggest your masking some sort of insecurity, I
Of course you can have feelings for more than one woman but it's not possible to love more than one person, I don't believe anyone who says
Why is that hard to understand? Don't you love your mother AND your father? Brother AND Sister? Why not wife AND girlfriend!!
The love between me and my mother/father/brother is a completely different type of love than that of what I have with my girlfriend, even you must