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Originally posted by Aeons
Gosh, you know in the UK and North America, your husband can treat you like rat crap and call you horrible names and if you kick him in the nads for it (an obvious consequence of that behaviour) you can be charge and put in jail!
Who knew.
Neglect, verbal abuse, infidelity etc are no excuse to resort to physical violence, ever! That's why they have divorce lawyers and marriage is a "legal contract" and you can get out no questions asked ! ??
Originally posted by Sherlock Holmes
Why should any man or woman ''use'' their unwilling partner as little more than a sex toy ?
Aside from the ethical problems of your stance, why would anyone even be in a relationship with somebody who they clearly don't respect ?
Originally posted by Korg Trinity
There are many reasons why a female can have reduced desire to engage in sexual activity. I myself have had to endure periods of time when my partner has had reduced libido.
Originally posted by Korg Trinity
A women’s sexual desire is not like a tap that you can turn on or off whenever you feel like it.
Let's all look at why Muslims are upset:
[turns and picks up a stick of chalk]
First of all, in the Muslim religion, you're not allowed to have what?
[no response]
Sex.
Good.
[writes "NO SEX" on the board]
There's no sex until marriage in the Muslim world.
[faces the class]
Now, this would be fine except that in the Muslim religion you also can't... Anybody?
[no response]
Jack off.
[writes "NO JACKING OFF" on the board]
Okay, jacking it is strictly forbidden in the Muslim religion.
[faces the class]
And what do we know about the places Muslims live? They live in?
[no response]
Good, sand.
[writes "SAND" on the board]
Now put yourself in the shoes of a Muslim. It's Friday night, but you can't have sex, and you can't jack off. There's sand in your eyes and probably in the crack of your ass, and then some cartoon comes along from a country where people are getting laid, and mocks your prophet. Well you know what? I'd be pretty pissed off too!
Originally posted by IAF101
reply to post by Americanist
How would you know one way or the other ??
Just like everything else, I guess the best you can come up with is ignorant speculation.
Threatning to go else where, if your partner does not consent to sex,is emotional abuse. Those in here who advocate this should be ashamed of yourselves and you should hang your heads in shame.
Originally posted by Laurauk
Anyone whom forces them selves upon thier partners for sex should be jailed for rape simple.
Originally posted by Laurauk
When you marry someone, you take vows to respect each other, marrying someone does not give anyone the right to take what they want, when they want it, without the consent of thier wife or husband.
Originally posted by Laurauk
And it is a no wonder females such as me and others are still fighting for equality in the UK.
Originally posted by Laurauk
Typical we give clerics like this benefits totalling over 30k per year, and they abuse it. Things need to change to kick exstreemists such as this out of this country, will it happen no
Originally posted by Americanist
Deductive reasoning as it's come to be referred too. You come off like a be-i-o-u-and-sometimes-y-tch, so in jail you'd take it in the rear. Had you taken it in the rear for a pro-longed stay, you'd have a hard time sitting down for any length of time. Hence, you wouldn't be in front of the computer typing a bunch of nonsense. And to make this reply count on a deeper level... You would find more insight into the nature of a woman's plight.
When contacted by The Independent, the cleric added: "In Islamic sharia, rape is adultery by force. So long as the woman is his wife, it cannot be termed as rape. It is reprehensible, but we do not call it rape."
Inayat Bunglawala, chairman of Muslims4UK, added: "Sheikh Sayeed's comments are woefully misguided and entirely inappropriate. Rape — whether within marriage or outside it — is an abominable act and is clearly against the law."