posted on Oct, 13 2010 @ 11:42 AM
Don't marry him unless he shows that he has changed, give it at least almost a year, maybe more. If he gets upset about this, you'll know he still
has a lot of work to do on himself. From what I've seen in relationships such as this, most don't change unless the partner is also a different
partner, or the same issues come up. If he still gets upset over the same issues, it's very telling. Especially if he already raised/used his hand
toward you. If someone hits once, they will often hit harder the next time. I know this from past experience. Never again.
If you give him another chance, keep your guard up and get out at the first sign of anger. He doesn't need to just "control" his anger, the anger
should NOT be there in the first place. Things like this that are just "controlled" , sometimes blow up big, and you will likely be the one who gets
hurt, probably physically.
Be Careful, please....