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Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Kailassa
Some mothers are unaware of pregnancy till they give birth.
In that case, he would be held legally responsible.
By the end of the second trimester an abortion is illegal in America.
That's not true. Abortion is legal at any time. States can deny abortion after 6 months, but the US law isn't limited.
realchoice.blogspot.com...
The following states allow for "physical or mental health" exceptions:
1. Arizona
2. Arkansas
3. California
4. Connecticut
5. Delaware
6. Florida
7. Georgia
8. Illinois
9. Iowa
10. Kansas
11. Kentucky
12. Louisiana
13. Maine
14. Maryland
15. Massachusetts
16. Minnesota
17. Missouri
18. Nebraska
19. Nevada
20. North Carolina
21. North Dakota
22. Oklahoma
23. Rhode Island
24. South Carolina
25. South Dakota
26. Tennessee
27. Texas
28. Virginia
29. Washington
30. Wisconsin
31. Wyoming
The following states allow post-viability abortions only for physical health exceptions:
1. Alabama
2. Indiana
3. Ohio
4. Montana
5. Pennsylvania
6. Utah (enjoined and unenforceable)
The following states allow post-viability abortions only if the mother's life is in danger:
1. Idaho (enjoined and unenforceable)
2. Michigan
3. New York
Of course many males, (I would not call them men,) in this thread are such misogynists they'll be delighted to know the women is suffering in the cause of their freedom to screw without consequences.
And you wonder why men aren't crazy about feminists?
When i was nursing round the clock and putting in 20 hour days with my babies, cat napping for a few moments at best, and running hte household, and my second oldst woke ever 2 hours for a feeding till he was nearly 2, I didn't notice any man doing the same. What I saw is them coming home and having beers with friends, or resting up and pursing their own interests.
Originally posted by Unity_99
reply to post by joechip
That was just said to express that men don't work harder than women overall, and I was noting the experiences of many, both sexes at the time. Even a stay at home mother works round the clock when she's looking after infants, in fact I put in more hours than my workaholic father, who tended to have a moment to himself now and then and always found time to play bridge, fish a little, and golf. I spent years with not even a moment to myself.
So I don't see how it distracts, since its being truthful.
edit on 18-9-2010 by Unity_99 because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Kailassa
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Kailassa
Whining about not having posts answered when you don't answer posts yourself?
I guess you do stand for double standards.
What are you talking about? And why be so nasty about it?
I'm nice to people until they get nasty.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic But if a woman chooses not to abstain, she can whine about a baby and child support all she wants, right?
So many single parents sacrifice everything for their children, trying to bring them up on their own and unable to actually get even the pittance the court has awarded them in child support, and yet you have the cheek to belittle them in this manner for finding things difficult. Oh, sorry, you're only belittling the female single parents.
You contend that when a pregnancy happens, caused by two parties who agree to have sex, each knowing sex can result in pregnancy, the man should have a free out just because the woman can supposedly have an abortion.
Yet you speak out of the other side of your mouth claiming you would not dream of putting pressure on the girl to have an abortion. You're plenty smart enough to know that denial of fatherhood from the father will be one more pressure forcing women into having an abortion, so I have lost the respect I used to have for you as an honest poster.
You support a law to say that once a man has renounced paternity, even if the child is born, he will not be a father and have no responsibilities to them.
What about the rights of the child?
"Oh, the woman should have thought of that and "kept a nickle between her knees."
Either you are saying women should be forced to get abortions at the man's choosing, or you are saying children should have no right to have support from their own father.
I've seen what it does to a child to be denied by his father. I have 2 handicapped sons who try and be brave about it, but who adore their father from afar and blame themselves for the fact that their father does not want to know them. One only talks about it in the middle of the night, when he's struggling against urges to kill himself for being no good.
And you want to change the law to put more children into this situation.
And you know what will happen if you change the law like this?
Any change on the womens' part to have fewer babies will be counteracted by an even greater freedom for men to screw all they want without fear of repercussions.