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Originally posted by hotbakedtater
But if she finds herself pregnant, the man also knew it was a risk, and until a child actually xists, how can either parent opt in or out of parenting the child
I posit that equal rights to not be a parent already exist, in the form of abstinence on the side of both sexes. After abstinence the right to NOT be a parent is a choice, if sex commences both man and woman knows what they are faced with.
Originally posted by AzoriaCorp
Originally posted by Hedera Helix
reply to post by Jenna
You stated that a rapist shouldn't have any say in whether or not his victim has an abortion. Does a rapist have any parental rights if she decides to keep it??? The reason I ask is because there have been cases where the rapist HAS done battle in an attempt to establish parental and visitation rights. What's your stand on that issue???
Well I would HOPE the rapist wouldnt have any rights to the child as should all of his rights be void, as he is thus a criminal, once he committed the crime of rape.
For a judge to even consider such a case would be madness.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Kailassa
Whining about not having posts answered when you don't answer posts yourself?
I guess you do stand for double standards.
What are you talking about? And why be so nasty about it?
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic But if a woman chooses not to abstain, she can whine about a baby and child support all she wants, right?
I am assuming that when she exercises her Reproductive Choice to abort, it is legal or safe. The Right is safe or legal accessto have one, when she does it becomes choice.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
en.wikipedia.org...
Reproductive rights rest on the recognition of the basic right of all couples and individuals to decide freely and responsibly the number, spacing and timing of their children and to have the information and means to do so, and the right to attain the highest standard of sexual and reproductive health. They also include the right of all to make decisions concerning reproduction free of discrimination, coercion and violence.[2]"
Put the man in your definition of reproductive rights there. The man should be able to decide freely the number of children he has (even if that number is zero). The man has the right to make decisions concerning reproduction. Including the decision NOT to.
***He already has that right, already covered by me, but will reiterate bith male and female start with the same right to decide freely. I already put the man in the equation, because the male and female both are entitled to the same rights. And they both have those rights, and they are on equal ground before the act commences, so where is this cry of unfair coming from?*****************
Unless a man is coerced violently, the child he is wishing to not have was conceived freely utilizing the reproductive Rights he is entitled to under Law.
Why is it that when you talk about female abortion, it's a parasite or clump of cells (which I agree with) but when you talk about a male abortion, it's a "CHILD"... ? It's not a child at the time of the abortion, male or female. TRY to have some objectivity here.
******************************I have used other terms for the subject in question, fetus parasite baby child bun deposit clump of cells kid. I find that quite varied.**************
Abortion?
That falls under Reproductive CHOICE
From your link:
Reproductive rights may include some or all of the following: the right to legal or safe abortion
Originally posted by Hedera Helix
You're assuming the victim went to the police and there was a trial in which the rapist was convicted. That rarely happens. What about the other victims... who hide in shame and have to carry the burden ALONE???
Originally posted by mayertuck
reply to post by hotbakedtater
really again? artificial insimination? 2 lesbians want a child, so I guess one of them HAS to have sex with a man to become pregnant.
I know exactly what THIS feminist wants.
Originally posted by SeenMyShare
reply to post by mayertuck
True. Feminists don't really know what they want, do they? They want to be on equal footing with a man without the responsibilities men face? Kind of like the current topic in reverse, huh?
Originally posted by peck420
reply to post by Hefficide
Bwahahahaha...the ENTIRE feminist movement is based on that very concept.
I am FORCED to hire a set number of women, wether they meet the physical requirements of the job or not.
And the best part, is I am then FORCED to buy more equipment so that the under equiped (by nature) female can do said job.
And that is your arguement...lol.
edit on 18-9-2010 by peck420 because: Spelling championWhat field are you in that still forces illegal quotas?
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
I want all females to be able to live a life free of oppression. Unfortunately, most of female oppression comes from men.
Originally posted by TarzanBeta
Originally posted by DoomsdayRex
Originally posted by airspoon
Well then the women can get an abortion if the man also chooses not to have a child. Why should the woman get the choice if she isn't ready to have a child but the man doesn't?
Going out on a limb here, and I know this is a stretch, but it might have something to do with the fact it is her body and her life that will be affected the most; a father assumes no risks whatsoever to his life-and-limb during pregnancy and childbirth.
I think this is more about controlling women than "father rights".
Really? Because, today's court system makes it possible for a child to pose extreme risks to a father's freedom, wallet, and social status.
A father may not get stretch marks, but he most certainly would have little reason to have a nice body after the fact.
If that's where you want to go with the argument... because it is vanity and the court system, in a more perfect world, would not serve VANITY.
My reply did not exclude those scenerios. No matter the manner of conception, I am correct in stating who else would be standing there but a MAN as only through the union of the male and female tissues do we produce offspring.
Originally posted by mayertuck
reply to post by hotbakedtater
really again? artificial insimination? 2 lesbians want a child, so I guess one of them HAS to have sex with a man to become pregnant.
Originally posted by Edrick
It's almost like the Feminist movement, wants women to behave, at ALL TIMES, like thoughtless children, don't it?
Originally posted by ButterCookie
Again, I am a woman and a single mother at that.
However, I side with the Mens Rights activists on this issue, because fair is fair.
If you press the button at the bottom of this post that says thread, you will find I have given more than several rebuttals to your points. Starting with men and women both have the same reproductive rights, again linked previously in my posts.
Originally posted by ButterCookie
Again, I am a woman and a single mother at that.
However, I side with the Mens Rights activists on this issue, because fair is fair.
The women I have brought this issue up to can't stand that fact, yet they are not able to provide a sound argument against it.
The Point: Women have the LEGAL right to decline motherhood at any time, but the father does not. MORALLY, neither party should go around having babies and not take care of them through adulthood, but the Men's RIghts Activist group's issue is not a moral one..its a LEGAL one.....LEGALLY only the woman has the right to decline parenthood and it is socially acceptable, yet the man is called trifiling if he declines.
Double Standard.
Women, we can not say we want to have the same rights as a man, but that man cannot have the same rights as us.
edit on 18-9-2010 by ButterCookie because: (no reason given)
edit on 18-9-2010 by ButterCookie because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
Right.....however, UNLIKE the female, who if she does not opt out of the fetus, is facing child support, he gets to walk away from not ONLY the fetus but the resulting legal entity as well. That is why it is an abdication of financial responsibility.
Once born the fetus is a child, and is a legal entity and laws are in place protecting the child.