posted on Sep, 13 2010 @ 01:38 PM
Ok, I know what the problem is here!
Yes, men in the past, have hated women, suppressed them, and always had power over them. However, As modern day has come about, women have gained back
all of these things. They are treated equally, at least here in western countries. However, there will always be men still brought up with
traditional values, same with women, so there will always be a hate for women that is unavoidable. However, there is a bigger problem here.
Women have fought through hell to get where they are today. It has taken them centuries to gain the right they have now, and be treated equally. But
now that they have these rights, they still act like they dont. They still expect the man to make the first move. They still expect to be wined and
dined and treated like a princess. They still expect the man to take the lead and so on. Well that is the problem. Women must start assuming the
role of the alpha female more. They should make first moves, and not be afraid to take a guy out. Men are being feminized, but women have yet to be
masculinized....To be equal, we have to either erase masculinity and femininty completely, and come up with a new equal concept. Or, there needs to
be an equal mix of both. Finding a woman that will make the first move is next to impossible. Women expect guys to come to them, they use their
looks, to attract guys. They need to start using their looks, in a more aggressive manner. Women need to rise to the challenge of their new
responsibilities. Otherwise, they should go back to raising kids and cooking in the kitchen. Half the men, are more like women, they won't make a
move because they're too shy, because they're afraid of women. They see a hard working gal, that looks independant, but then expect him to make all
the moves? It's confusing for guys, and I say that from experience.
That is the problem, between male and female relationships.