Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by Faiol
OK, those of you that were on board with me will probably jump ship now.
So, our sons see us having sex......so what?
I mean really? I wouldn't get any particular turn on from seeing my parent's having sex, but I'm glad they are doing it. I hope they keep doing
it, and they keep enjoying it. My 4 year old and 2 year old have probably seen to much, and we try to take precautions to keep them out, but I hope
they grow up with a healthy curiousity and an intelligent, open-mind about the whole subject. Hopefully they won't view it as some taboo subject
that people should avoid and frown or scoff at.
If my 4 year old becomes a 12 year old and he happens across a sex video of his mother and me together, or a sex video of his mother and me not
together on spring break in years past. Either way, I won't care. It will affect him one of two ways. Either he will be entirely grossed out and
quit looking at porn, or he will say his parents are pretty cool and he hopes to meet a woman and have a good relationship like ours. Either way is a
win in child-rearing.
In my opinion, it all comes down to intelligence and rationality, and confidence in one's self, and in good relationships and honesty with your
partner and your kids, and understanding our biological nature compared to our restrictive society.
hey, let be me a smart ass and say that sex is healthy
come on, thats not the point here, I didnt say that sex is bad for you
but, lets say you put a video of you having sex with your girlfriend online right now;
if somebody finds out, detects you, then people around you will find out, then your city will find you, you may be recognized on the streets, and you
will probably be bashed for it, especially the woman ... she would be known as "slut"
imagine if you have children, they would be bashed at school for having "pornstars" parents and things like that
you would be treated worse than a pornstar, in our society, since they are doing a job, you are just providing for free
so, my whole problem is that society will view you in a different way, you may have difficulties having jobs, finding friends ...
to prove my point, all the girls nowadays that do these type of thing in the webcam, end up with huge mental problems, since they are bashed at
school, they need to change city, change name, and it may never go away
(not saying the ones that charge for it, since they do it and they know the consequences!!)
so, if you want to post videos of you having sex, no problem, but our society doesnt face that like a normal thing, and I dont think it ever will ...
yes, sex is normal, but to let it be public, thats something very different
if you want to do it, go ahead man, I am not against it, but I am just letting you know that society doesnt accept it the way you wanted to
[edit on 7/9/10 by Faiol]