Originally posted by halfoldman
My parents thought this gender austerity made it a "cult", but it appears most religions are gender segregated, including Islam and many
churches.
I suppose I must decide: is that part of the attraction, do I want to change gender, or choose something more liberal?
Yes, most religions tend to have some form of gender separation in their teachings, or in the culture of their adherents.
A few years ago I went to a Sikh wedding, and after the actual marriage ceremony, the man stayed in one room, while the women all went off to
another.
Which was a shame, as I think that Indian women are amongst the most naturally beautiful in the world !
When you ask whether you want to change gender, I am guessing that you are not referring to physically, but rather as in willingly accepting, and
adopting the role that a society, or culture, would expect the female to fulfil ?
I'd personally say that you should do your own thing, mate, and not yet any societal or cultural dogma get in the way of you living your life, and
being who you want to be.
[edit on 5-9-2010 by Sherlock Holmes]