It looks like you're using an Ad Blocker.
Please white-list or disable AboveTopSecret.com in your ad-blocking tool.
Thank you.
Some features of ATS will be disabled while you continue to use an ad-blocker.
Originally posted by oddtodd
KrazyIvan , who you responding to ?
Originally posted by Bastet
...
Young children tend to see things in black & white
They generally have long memories
A lying answer to a DIRECT question creates confusion & loss of trust.
None of the above is in conflict with Santa, the Easter Bunny, or fairy tales.
When the child's old enough to ask, he/she is old enough to be given the answer in language appropriate to his/her understanding.
Originally posted by HombreConUnPollo
If the child is old enough and mature enough to understand what they are asking about then they are mature enough to hear an answer. A Correct Answer!
Originally posted by intrepid
...You really don't know, you have a belief. You could go on about, "Some people believe this, some people believe that and some people believe the other." ....
Originally posted by intrepid
... Anyways, to get back on topic, what we did with the Santa thing was tell our kids the he WAS a real person, we do these things at Christmas in his spirit. ...
Originally posted by cyberdude78
I think lying about Santa is a good idea to a certain age. Its good mental exercise for your child to question this and discover the truth for themselves. It keeps society from being easy to control.
Originally posted by HombreConUnPollo
Think about all those parents out there that are wondering why their teenage son or daugther doesn't trust them enough to tell them where they, are what they are doing, etc.. Maybe it's because the found out that Mommy and Daddy lied to them for 5 or 6 years. In some cases it may be a lot more.