posted on Sep, 3 2010 @ 10:14 AM
reply to post by lellomackin
In a nutshell, yes. And we should be careful to define fetish and perversion. These are not negative terms. Or at least they should not be. We all
have them, and they are deeply ingrained, and generally harmless (there are a few exceptions).
What you mention about lesbians that are attracted to feminine women, makes sense, and so does the gay men that are attracted to men who carry
themselves as straight. BUT, the flipside of that coin makes no sense. What about the feminine lesbian that is attracted to butch women, and not
attracted to men? That makes no sense?
And yes, to your other point. Men are probably hardwired to find women with a certain hip/waist ratio, and pretty hair and skin and bright eyes, and
a healthy glow attractive. It is proven that strippers make more money while they are ovulating and/or on their cycle. There is much about sexual
attraction that we don't understand, but it all boils down to "survival of species" and on the most basic level, we will be attracted to those that
are most likely to be willing and able to produce healthy babies with us.
Everything outside of that basic instinct to find a healthy, fertile mate, everything else is just a fetish that developed as part of our experiences
growing up in this crazy world!