Neomoniker, you just don't get it. A secret is not something that is only of "personal" or private matter. This is a piece of information that
cannot be disclosed, that you are NOT ALLOWED to disclose to other people that don,t know. There's a whole world of difference between having a
private conversation with a mate and being under strict order to not reveal a bit of info that you have discussed with him/her to other people.
Considering this is about the definition of secrecy, here's a few official english definitions for the word:
From the Cambridge English Dictionary:
secret [Show phonetics] noun 1 [C] a piece of information that is only known by one person or a few people and should not be told to others:
From yourdictionary.com:
se·cret
adj.
Kept hidden from knowledge or view;
From the Merriam-Webster dictionary:
Main Entry: 1se·cret
Pronunciation: 'sE-kr&t
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French, from Latin secretus, from past participle of secernere to separate, distinguish, from se- apart +
cernere to sift -- more at SECEDE, CERTAIN
1 a : kept from knowledge or view
Main Entry: 2secret
Function: noun
1 a : something kept hidden or unexplained : MYSTERY b : something kept from the knowledge of others or shared only confidentially with a few
So both the adjective and noun form of the word "secret" relates to the action of keeping a piece of information away from others. It's not about
neing privvy, this is about being exclusive and secretive. It's about hiding things from others rather than getting up close and personal with some
specific people.
Now would you go as far as contesting the work of the linguists that made those definitions? Really, if you're THAT pretentious, then go for it...
but that's beyond me!