posted on Aug, 28 2010 @ 04:45 PM
I don't think it's about do parents fight, but how they fight. I also don't belive in telling others what to do, but I do belive in encouraging
others to be conscious of what they are doing when fighting in front of children.
This thread makes me appreciate a whole lot how I was raised and how my husband and I raise our children. Sure, life isn't always sunshine and
flowers... But we hadle ourselves maturely. We have arguements, but I can proudly say we do not 'fight', especially in front of our daughter. I
understand many people are not able to do this. I respect that there are cases of rage and people are not always in control of their emotions. I do
not think living in guilt of losing control is good either, but only adds to the problem. I only think people should try be aware of what they are
doing. If a home is violent, then steps should be taken to improve the situation. I'm not here to dictate to anyone that they do this, but I would
just like to encourage them. I think it's important for people to be conscious of their actions and the effects of them, is all. People are free to
do what they want, though, and that's really the bottom line. But do just think about what it is like to be that child and seeing it all.