reply to post by Wang Tang
The real situation is that we were actually friends before the robbery. Than I was brainwashed from my parents to make me believe he 's evil.
I than discovered the real fact: he was not the only one to do the robbery on me and he had to pay for everybody...
Oh, and ONE THING MORE, he's NOT a son of a prostitute like my parents told me. This was a lie. His father guards a dam and they have to live near a
dam, and my parents were so schocked by this, because " they live in the middle of the nothing "...
My parents are very wrong...Very wrong...
And he was actually very very sorry for what he did and we made peace and we spent all those days together, not being able to avoid each other
My parents completely misunderstood the situation and now I know that this person is actually not evil, but absolutely human.
I'm now going to send a letter to his family explaining that I'm sorry for the fight between our families and to tell them that me and him couldn't
avoid each other and we are friends again and I want this fight to end in a pacific way.
My parents did a lot worst than the robbery to his family and him. They insulted him and his family in a very heavy way and my friend was aware of
this, and I felt I had to say sincerely sorry for it.
And he was sad, asked me about my parents " Are they still angry with me? ", he tried to call my mother to say sorry and such things, but my mother
still shouted against him in a very harsh way.
God, why they can't try to talk in a normal way instead to shout all their rage out?
Than we stopped avoiding each other and all came back to be exactly the same.
I'm very different from my parents and I understood his situation: he is a person who feels the need to show himself in a different way to appear
interesting and cool, and he would do bad things like smoke and drink to appear cool and rebel to his friends but in reality, and I clearly saw this,
when he's alone he never smokes and drinks.
He happened to know my friends and they became friends, and I was happy for him because he needs different people, people who are more good, because
he used to go with such bad people and of course he acted badly with them around.
I now see him everyday. With me I know that he is the real him, because with me he doesn't need to appear rebel or do something unusual for him, with
me he can be himself.
I don't know how to talk to my parents but my idea of the letter to my friend's parents might have success.
edit on 15-9-2010 by Zagari because: (no reason given)