posted on Aug, 17 2010 @ 02:29 PM
The guys before me made good points.... but I bet your problem isn't just talking to women you don't know. It's about getting those 2nd and 3rd
half of the battle is meeting the right girl and making conversation. To do that right, you have to figure out what you want first. If you want a
chick that's in to conspiracy’s and comic books, don't try to pick up a girl at a night club. If you're into sports... try going to a sports bar
or something on ladies night or during a ball game. You'd be surprised at the amount of women that go to bars to watch sports games. If you want a
nice girl.. join a book club or a cooking class. Point is, figure the right girl for you then find the right places to meet those type of girls.
Break the ice – be cool.. be confident… pretend like you got a 10” cock and a million dollars in the bank.. woman can sense confidence and they
can sense fear.. don’t be afraid of women and if you are don’t show it !
keeping the girl... let's say you meet the right woman... you hit it off.. you get her number.. you go out on a first date.. it goes well... what do
you do next? If you're like most guys that are bad with women.. you make the ultimate mistake.. you get all crazy and fall in love after the first
date. Now you're calling this chick 3 times a day and trying to get her to meet your mom... STOP!
When you first meet a girl.. you want to hang out with her once a week.. GOT IT !.. and you want to talk to her on the PHONE once per week.. and that
is to make the plans to hang out... GOT IT? PHONE.. not text.. aim.. or the chat feature on ATS. Let’s say after a week or two, she asks you to hang
out on a Monday.. what do you say? You say your busy, how about Tuesday?… but you still only ask her to hang on the weekends… why? Your busy
during the week.. I know you’re not.. but tell her you are.. and don’t tell her what you’re doing.. just say your busy… pretend your James
#ing bond and you have to go to Havana to stop a nuke from going off.. it’s not her business what you’re doing when you’re not with her..
she’s not your GF or your mother.
Why act that way? Because women don't want to date boys that hang out on conspiracy sites all day and play video games all night. Women want Men...
men with jobs and hobbies n # like that. Not guys that sit around wacking it all day long. Don't be that guy that is available 24/7.. if you don't
have hobbies, get some... if you're out of shape.. go to the gym... can’t afford the gym.. go jog, it’s free.. get your ass into shape… get
some nice cloths... shower before you go out... that stuff might be obvious to your or it might not.. I dunno.. I see guys at bars wearing batman
t-shirts and dirty jorts (that’s jean shorts) and they are trying to buy women drinks... don't get me wrong man, I’m not some pretty boy.. I’ll
rock the superman shirt while I’m out.. but my girl friend is sitting at home waiting for me to get back.
So to sum it up… get your # together first… get your girl/friend to give you a make over or something and make sure you’re presentable.. get a
hair cut.. cut your finger nails… I can’t tell you how many girls have told me that’s the biggest turn off – finger nails… then find a place
to meet a girl… play it cool.. and KEEP YOUR # TOGETHER that’s the hardest part.. not getting all excited… ONE DATE AT A TIME.
and of course, be yourself.. maybe save the ATS convos for the 5th date or so.. but if that’s who you are, you need to find a girl that’s into
that kind of stuff.. my GF is.. I got her into this stuff… but I picked a girl with an open mind.. that’s prob what you need too. After you find a
girl and make her your we’ll talk about relationships again ;-)
Good luck buddy