As others have posted, you're a level headed guy, gives a lot of credibility.
This is just my opinion, for what it's worth:
1. You're going mad - least likely, symptoms very specific.
2. ET/spiritual - again not likely, it's just not how they work
3. Govt psyops - bingo.
The tech exists, correlates with other's testimony which descibes similar events, the time is set (for now). Your father's involvement in very
important. I've heard stories of other military kids who have been reminded of their parents involvement, also something they did not feel important
at the time.
WRT having an X. You are actively engaged in the open discussion and dissemination of anti govt information. Moreso, you live within easy reach of any
advanced tech they care to use on you, and others like you. Remember, this US GOVT is a nightmare of epic proportions that is now turning against
it's own people. CIA has admitted to using this tech on people in cells, where they believe Mohammed told them to tell the interrogators everything.
(can't recall the guys name, it's out there)
Here's what i think you should be doing. Takes notes, of anything strange. If you are being targetted there would be other "tells", and this attack
will develope in some way.
Keep sane, if you accept that this is an external threat, NOT an internal, it will help you categorise this kind of event better, and allow your mind
to develope it's own defenses. And of course, get your heart right with God, and your family etc.
And as much as anything, keep us informed, the only thing they really don't like is exposure.