posted on Aug, 3 2010 @ 06:47 PM
first for you you who know me please forgive me for my bad spelling and such , alo mods if this is not in the correct spot please move it ..thank you
so very much !
ok ill try and make this as short as i can .I am a 26 year old father of a two and a half year old boy and a six month old baby girl .. so my wife
and i let her brother and his girlfriend move in our house , to help them out .. well long story short they stole from us money and my wife's
perscription medication .so we gave them the boot .. well the day after they left i get a knock on my door and its CPS (Child protective services )
i made the mistake of welcoming her into my home cause i was in fear at the time and i was very intimidated . also we had nothing to hide we have a
great house with a play room for the kids they both have a room to sleep in i maintain a good family life , i work hard for what i have and i give
everyday 110% for my kids ..
no the cps worker was very nice she even stated that within the first five min of meeting us she could tell that the report that was failed on us was
most likley retaliation ? .. at that point it clicked since by law she could not tell me who called that was her little hint that it was my wifes
brother ..so our conversation lasted about 30 min . she inspected the house and said everything looks great the kids are fine , i then stoped her and
asked what the nature of the call was ..she stated that there was a complaint of strong drug use , prescription drugs ,weed ,ect .i laughed and said
hey listen we dont do that stuff ,i then told her when i was a kid that stuff messed up my family bad , i then took it upon my self not knowing any of
my rights ,i said hey ill take a drug test to clear that up ,she then said thats just what i was going to ask ,she said will you summit to a urin test
you and your wife ,without hesitation we both said yes no problem and we will go down right away ..and we did ..
so here i am at the testing place and feeling like a dirtball thinking man how could someone stoop so low to call cps and try getting our kids taken
away . not only was her brother taking from us but he was taking from his self thats his neese and nephew , so i was called to test and i brought all
the medication i had just to be on the safe side medication that i have not taken for months such as vicoden ,naproxin
i was not sure at the time if that would even show up in a pee test ,so as i walked in i handed this man my bottle and he shook it and asked was
where the vicoden was i told him i left it at home in a bag he then said Oh man with a laugh ? i said why oh man he then said cause i could sure use
one right now? this pissed me off cause i was sitting there thinking this guy who is testing people might possibly be a on drugs himself ? so i said
to him and this is all i said and i did have a bit of an attude i said man thats not cool! he then said what ? i replyed never mind . so as i was
peeing in this cup i he was behind me doing somthing i thought he was going to watch me pee in it witch he did not .after i filled the cup i handed it
to him ,he was not wearing gloves ,he put the test strip in the cup and waited for about 2 min then looked at me and said WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU
TOOK OXYCOTTIN ! my heart dropped i said what ! dude are you serious ? he said ya also it looked like you have benzodiazepines in your system ! i did
not even know what that was at the time , i started to shake in fear at this point .. all the thoughts of how my kids would be taken away ran through
my head .. as i walked out i seen my wife in the hallway and told her what i had tested positive for ! she was floored ,the feeling i had was a
feeling of the lowest darkest of anyfeeling i have ever had i felt dirty i felt ashamed ..but for the life of me i could not figure out how i got this
dirty test .. i was determind to figure this out .. i asked the guy who tested me what now? he then said well you can send it away to have it tested
again but its going to cost twenty dollars , i said fine lets do it ..so my wife came out with her test and everything was fine all clean.
so we left the testing place ,i was very quiet most of the way home racking my brain trying to figure it out ,then it hit me ! i need to figure out
what benzodiazepines are
so i got home and looked it up and they are anti anxiety meds like valum and such
,now how did i test positive for this and oxy? i have never taken any of this stuff in my life ! the only thing i can think of is this .one the guy
who tested me was not wearing gloves ,two he set this all up so he could get the twenty dollards ,three the night i went out to the club with my
brother inlaw i must have got a spiked drink ? but that was a week past .
to make the matters even worse the cps worker came back to the house and told my wife not to let me be alone with the kids and that it would have to
stay this way untill i stested clean . at this point i cant even type how i felt .. i was very depressed and sad and now there was a possible trust
issue going on with my wife that i could not figure out ! .. my wife kept asking me .chris are you sure you did not take anything that night you can
tell me i wont be mad ! .. i would reply no babe i swear i did not i would not ever i would tell you the truth .
so then a week passed the worker came back and told me i needed to test again i said ok ill do it ..i left her and my wife to talk . soon after the
worker left my wife came at me with more questions . once more i assured her i have not i would not!
i decided to look online my rights and see if maybe any one els out there had simuler storys .i could not find any other storys like mine but i did
find anything .
so here we are today and i still have not tested cause i am very scard to go and test
the worker called me and told me that i am playing games and that if i dont go test she will take away my kids ..i started to tell her how i felt and
why i was scard she then told me i was a lire and i was leing to my wife and then get this!!!!!! she goes ARE YOU ON SOMTHING RIGHT NOW!!?!?! i said
excuse me ? i said no i am not on anything ! so she then said if i dont get that test by friday i am going to close your case saying that you tested
dirty and you will not be able to be around your kids alone ..now she knew the situataion and the story and she was so nice to my face but behind my
back she was very evil