posted on Aug, 21 2010 @ 09:33 AM
reply to post by NoRegretsEver
Hi NoRegretsEver, thank you for your feedback. I wrote this when I realized that being pushy seldom if ever works when trying to help others become
more aware. In my experience, it just adds fuel to the fire. I try to always question my intent for attempting adjustment now. I need to be sure that
it does not stem from egoic involvement. It must be intelligent by nature. I'm working on it ^_^
As far as when one changes tactics and the second party being abandoned... i'm not quite sure this is so. It would seem that changing tactics (or
rather, vibration) for optimal flow of communication is important for a successful handshake of understanding between the modems (the two beings
communicating). This all seems to be a natural function in the adjustment of communication. Sometimes, people just have not had enough experiences or
have not yet made their ego transparent enough to be able to "handle the truth" (strike truth for facts, simply what is). Actually, I suspect that
everyone knows everything already. They're just not aware of it yet. Ego is like a firewall to the real. If you force the minds of people who are not
ready, you can cause them a lot of unnecessary suffering and in some occurrences, possibly drive them insane.
Everyone is here to have their own experiences. Sometimes, that is all undeveloped beings need. Ask yourself, why do you tread lightly with some? Was
it because you were performing a social experiment or just winging it? Maybe it was because those folks were going to have a shock at what you wanted
to reveal. Maybe, on some level you were aware of this and decided to adjust your output intelligently to assure that you did not cause excessive
disturbance. Very graceful this can be. I agree that it is a personal decision (another parameter in the game), and discernment is essential.
It is good to be aware of the status of one's listeners, and to that who one listens.
Peace and light be with you.