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Originally posted by thisguyrighthere
Seems like the father and the son are just douchebags and she knows it.
If I dont post over the next couple of days it means the blueberries were poisoned and she was in on it the whole time.
I just wanted to let you know I did not intend to hurt your feelings or be rude in my response to you, so forgive me if you felt I was attacking.
Originally posted by thisguyrighthere
reply to post by hotbakedtater
Ive only referred to the hostile individuals with derogatory names. Names which by numerous accounts about town are founded and adequate.
I didnt stop to announce my intentions for a host of reasons. Perhaps in hindsight it was foolish. I had already mowed much of the connecting area, the mower isnt most reliable and if I had stopped it it may not have started again, I had mowed that lawn for months before they moved in, I worried if I had asked permission they would have suspected a scam or extortion and refused the help, etc...
I thought if I just did it it would be done and that'd be the end of it.
Maybe all valid reasons maybe all invalid. Still those were some of my reasons at the time. I just kept mowing until I was done.
When she came out to thank me I felt I had made the right choice.
I dont need anyone to make me "feel" better. I just dont want anyone hurling stones at my house.
If they are indeed crazy asking them for permission would have incited the same harassing treatment and going over there now to apologize would only embolden the psychotic behavior.
I'll wait until I happen to see the wife about town and talk to her. Of the three she is the least insane. Unless her politeness and appreciation is all an act.
Let me address these two points.
Originally posted by LurkerMan
reply to post by hotbakedtater
i also dont understand how you think taking the initiative to just do it without expecting anybody to notice or care, is somehow doing it to feel "good". to me it just seems like the job needed to be done so he did it. Like when you see a piece of trash on the ground, do you pick it up because it needs to be picked up? or do you leave it because it's "not yours" or "you didnt leave it there"
if he were doing it to feel "good" he would have walked up and announced the deed so everybody could hug and kiss him and thank him and make him feel all lovey dovey.
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
One, you are saying he DID do it out of kindness, and without wanting anyone to notice or care.
His entire posts contradicts this. The derogatory comments prove he is giving a huge care that he did not receive the thanks or appreciation he felt he deserved for doing a kindness.