posted on Oct, 27 2010 @ 03:07 AM
Dear Wagtail,
My #1 piece of advice?
BE YOURSELF. You don't want to find a guy who later realizes that the girl he fell in love with doesn't really exist and you would have to keep an
act going. The guy who will love you for who you really are, is the one for you.
My #2 piece of advice?
BE PATIENT. Sometimes the things you are looking for most are right under your nose and you just can't see them! Don't look for them and you find
what you were looking for before. In french we have an expression that says "la patience t'amenera de belles récompenses" (patience will bring you
great rewards... it rhymes in french lol).
My #3 piece of advice?
HAVE FUN! Go ahead, meet lots of guys. Go for dinners, movies and have a blast! You only live 1 life. It's better to have the fun now, and later the
greatness of true love, than to lose the true love or not enjoy it for regret or the dreaded "what if" feeling that many people seem to get for some
reason after a certain amount of marriage time...
I had my fun, and now I have my true love who is carrying our little boy (she's due in January!)... There is a time and a place for everything, it's
just the wait that makes in unbearable... But you can make it fun if you choose to!
I hope my advice brings you some kind of help!
Magnum