posted on Jul, 26 2010 @ 09:40 PM
reply to post by wagtail
Take off your rings, for a start. Those could be sending off "taken" signals.
Other than that, there is no right way to dress, your clothes should express your personality so that the people who do approach you have an idea who
you are. (girly girl? tomboy? all business? sporty?)
There are articles about flirting, and how women signal interest to the opposite sex, (head tilt, eye contact, smiling, hair flipping, other grooming
behaviors) if this doesnt come naturally maybe you should do a little research?
Also, and I dont mean to be rude, but knowing your level of appropriate mate is important too, for men and women. The 300lb Dungeons and Dragons guy
isnt going to get the supermodel unless he happens to be a millionaire, and for women, the same applies. Figure out what your range is, (age, looks,
intellect) and focus on people in your general ballpark. People too far over you will not respond, and people too far below you will not have the
guts to try, most times.
Not getting approached doesnt mean you are unattractive, sometimes you can be TOO attractive and have men too nervous to hit on you. But you do have
to kind of figure out where you stand, if you want to target your audience.