reply to post by yuefo
There is no communication when a parent does this, only a bully's ego dominating someone weaker and inexperienced. It's cowardly and lazy.
Oh bullcrap! My two nephews got their butts busted more than once. They were also smothered in love from their parents. From the time they were
little kids there was nothing they couldn't talk to their parents, or me, about. There was not a day that went by when they were not hugged and
told they were loved more than life itself. They are now grown with kids of their own. They are still smothered in love by their mom - their dad
passed away. There is still nothing they won't discuss with their mom or me. They are still hugged and told they are loved every time they come
They grew up to be an engineer and a paramedic. My niece is a RN, but she was such a good kid she never needed her butt busted. None of them did
drugs or drink, had an unwanted pregnancy, or got in trouble in any way. They made good grades and participated in all sorts of sports and
All three now have kids and those kids also get their butts busted when they need it. And those kids are loved beyond measure, hugged and told they
are loved, and know they can talk to their parents, Baca (grandmother in their father's original language) and Aunt Granma about anything. They are
all sweet, lovable, WELL BEHAVED kids.
I could load all 7 of them up and take them anywhere and I know I wouldn't have a bit of problem with any of them.
None of the kids were ever "beaten" but they all got the belt or a spoon when necessary.